Forgive me, I just gotta rant about this. TL;DR
I have mentioned before how Quebec has instituted medicare’s worst nightmare. If you have a family doctor, fine. But if they retire (or move, or die), the province assigns you a doctor–eventually. In my case it took 19 months to even get one and she is a 3/4 hour drive away. And I had an argument with her. I was right and she was wrong (see below). The other thing the province does is check our drivers at age 75, 80 and, in principal, every two years thereafter. Because of covid, they let me get to 85 for the third check. I got forms to be filled out by my optometrist and doctor. The optometrist’s form was no problem, but I suspect that she decided I was losing my marbles. Whatever she put on the form, the result was that I was called to take a driving test. Which I did two days ago and passed easily.
In fact, I think I passed after I exchanged ten words with the examiner. In the MV office, there was a shelf full of roof-top signs that said (in French) “Driver exam in progresss”. Every examiner picked one up on the way out. As we passed the shelf, he started to reach for one of the signs, then shrugged and decided not to bother. So I think in his mind I had already passed.
The test itself was uneventful. Turn left, turn right. I did come to full stop at every stop sign, but other than that drove the way I would’ve without the examiner in the car. There was a nasty bit where my lane was totally blocked by a delivery van and I had to edge into the opposite lane that was full of cars waiting for a light, but I dealt with that with care, exactly as if he hadn’t been there. All in all, it was an utter waste of three hours.
[rant] How do I know the doctor was wrong? Back 15 years when I was a kid of 70, I had a PSA test with a reading of 9, which is high. I had a biopsy and it was clean. After that I had a serious conversation with my then doctor and we agreed that there would be no more PSA tests. He automatically stopped at 75, but agreed that it could be stopped then. When my DIL, who is a family physician (in Boston, unfortunately) hears that my new doctor had ordered a PSA test for me, she was livid. “You don’t give PSA tests to 85 year olds.” But I basically knew that from just general medical knowledge. So when she told me that my PSA was high (turned out to around 10, although she didn’t tell me that), I argued that at my age there was nothing to be done. That was what we argued about. And not only am I convinced she was wrong, my DIL is not the only evidence. Finally I agreed to see a urologist. He laughed and told me that at my age, he wouldn’t even consider treatment unless the PSA was at least 20 and then changed that to 30. He did goose me and said that the prostate was enlarged, but didn’t recommend any treatment.
The worst part is that if I leave her, I would likely have to wait another couple years and get someone an hour away. I would move to the US, but I only 34 quarters of SS coverage. While I could, at some cost, buy into medicare, but then I would have to navigate the whole US medical system. Yes, my DIL and children would help, but could I face it?
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