What do you call an actor without a boyfriend/girlfriend? Homeless.
Actors all pretty much start off with feast or famine wages…the occasional good part that might pay a few thousand dollars, then nothing, then perhaps two or three parts in a month with $10,000 or more, then four months with nothing, etc.
Because of this, new/unknown actors have to budget tightly…they never know how long it might be until the next gig - if ever.
You will find even big name actors still have this mentality…many start to panic when they don’t get a film/TV series in six months or a year - even if they made a million or more on their last film, they still have the painful memories of being broke and living off nothing. Often this is why you might see a fairly well-known actor in some really crappy movie…they just get paranoid and can’t be all that picky. They too have mortgages and kids in school and car payments, etc.
I have read articles about actors who might be on a current hit show - maybe in their second or third season - who STILL live like they won’t have a paycheck tomorrow. They know if that series suddenly gets canceled, they might be up a creek for a long time and the memories are too fresh and painful for them to go out and buy a fancy house or expensive car. I think some of the cast of Friends mentioned it was only in their second or third season that they might have purchased a small condo or new car…still worried about not having enough a year later, should the show be dropped.
For that reason, most actors starting to make money get good accountants - perhaps investing in an apartment building or safe stock options or other real estate/safe investments. They know how fast you can fall in this business - no matter how high you get!
Acting is a fickle business…and while we can look at Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie and the tons of money they rake in, there are others (hello Cuba Gooding Jr.) who might also have won an Oscar and are not exactly raking in the dough.
So - you can make a living, just as a steady but relatively unknown actor, but you have to learn to be thrifty and plan on those famines where nothing seems to come your way. This is also why many eventually toss in the towel and get day jobs and - well - sort of exit gracefully from the business.
And in show business, you also have to take into consideration age and beauty, along with luck…so you have all sorts of things going on that are out of your control. Is it any wonder that actors are a skittish bunch?