Perhaps ANZAC Day in New Zealand is different from Memorial Day in the US…
Here in the US, Memorial Day is generally understood to commemorate the dead who fell in all wars in which US troops participated.* World War II is the earliest of those that still has a sizeable number of living veterans (no cite - if somebody disagrees, I’d welcome correction), so it and other wars since tend to get the most attention.
The conflict in Vietnam is most certainly included in the commemoration - a war which we didn’t “win”.
I’m still having trouble understanding your apparent claim that celebrating Memorial Day is offensive/insulting to the Japanese. Are we as a nation not to pause for a day and remember those who died? Out of fear that descendants of those who killed them will take offense? I find this idea obscene. Quite frankly, if somebody is offended that I choose to remember my countrymen who died in wars, I’ve little sympathy for him. Like I said, perhaps ANZAC Day celebrations are different, but I’ve never seen a Memorial Day commemoration expressing any kind of pride in the number of enemy killed.
You mention that commemorating WWII did not stop subsequent wars from occurring. This is (obviously) true, but I fail to see how that invalidates the holiday.
I’m not sure just why you feel this way, but I couldn’t disagree more. Vietnam and the Gulf War are hardly “ancient battles”. Observing a national holiday bringing the human cost of these struggles out into the open is the precise antithesis of “not taking personal responsibility for our human natures,” IMO. We, today, cannot change what happened in the past, but we damn well can pay attention to it, realize how awful it was for all concerned, and try not to repeat it. You do sagely point out that holidays don’t seem to succeed in this aim, but I’m adamant that they do more towards that end than simply sweeping matters under the rug would.
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- Opinions on this may vary. I’m having trouble pinning down a good citation for just what Congress intended when is created the holiday.