I picked the “minimal amount of makeup” option because while I understand the literal definition of “no make up” is literally none.
But if someone comes up to me and says “I love how naturally pretty Tiffany is! She never wears makeup and is gorgeous” I am making the assumption that Tiffany is, in fact, wearing SOME makeup.
So I basically went with the spirit of the law and not the letter of the law on that one
Context matters here. The OP is phrased very specifically and is going to elicit literal interpretations from guys. If we’re going to mention a woman’s makeup to her we’re not going to say “I like the way you look with just a little bit of makeup that isn’t distracting, clownish, or garish”. We’ll just go with something simpler and look for your reaction.
I don’t define the term. I leave it up to wearers of make up to decide what it means. That includes men who wear make up. I expect that, like a lot of jargon, it isn’t meant literally.
You make a good point. If a guy told me he liked how I looked with makeup on, this would not feel like an endorsement of my natural beauty and I’d feel embarrassed.
and may I take this opportunity of emphasizing that there is no cannibalism in the British Navy. Absolutely none, and when I say none, I mean there is a certain amount
To me, there are different connotations between “She’s wearing no makeup” and “She’s not wearing makeup” and “She’s not made up.” It’s kind of similar to the distinction between “She’s not wearing clothes” (meaning she’s naked) and “She’s not dressed” (meaning she’s in her pajamas or something like that) and “She’s not dressed up” (meaning she’s wearing something casual).
I’m a woman in her 60’s. 99% of the time ‘no makeup’ for work. The greetings are “Hi Marion.” On the days I make myself up with non-noticeable makeup the men are like “hellloooo there…”
I don’t think men know what ‘no makeup’ is. No Makeup is blotchy skin and unseeable eyelashes unless you’re a really lucky woman (or 14) even 20 year olds have skin issues…
We know exactly what it is, because 99.9999% of the men we encounter are not wearing any. And we’re not repulsed by the blotchy skin and thin eyelashes of our male coworkers.
Personally, I don’t mind facial imperfections at all. Bring on the blotchy skin and dark circles! If I see someone with unusually smooth skin for their age, I find that I naturally look a little closer to tell if it’s concealer or whatever they call it. And if I find it, I don’t particularly like it.
Presumably you’re not repulsed by bearded men, either. But I guarantee you my love life would be a lot tougher if I sported whiskers and 5 o’clock shadow.
Men and women are held to very different standards, obviously.
Oh My God, SKIN??? Eyelashes that don’t look like beckoning oases in the desert?? Next you’re going to tell me some women have arm hair and cellulite! How grotesque!
I don’t understand how women can function in a world where men who aren’t clowns or professional actors bare their face and eyes every single day. It has to be so disgusting seeing people of the opposite sex as they actually are. Obviously, no one prefers looking at unpainted humans! Anyone who thinks so really just likes minimal amounts face paint because some woman fooled them in the past. Certainly, no woman ever walks out the door with no make up on at all! So the guys who say “I prefer women who don’t wear makeup” are mistaken, because it’s not possible for them to have ever seen such a woman.