People selecting what mental illnesses are real or made up. Why?

Really? ADHD is robbing me of the ability to think, and every last thing I say or do is verbal effluent?

No, he’s saying that’s the thought process in some corners, and he has a point, but I would put that in the realm of psychiatry. The closer you work with people, the more you see actual life problems and not walking symptoms of disease.

Do you think the people “in some corners” sincerely believe that someone with ADHD couldn’t possibly make an intelligible comment?

No idea. Do you think that’s really pertinent to anything he said?

Either “Yes, obviously it’s centrally pertinent” or “No, it doesn’t matter”, depending on his definition of mental illness.

My father is very intelligent, and I love him dearly, but he’s wrong on ADD/ADHD. He believes they are just kids being kids. I don’t think my father ever met a kid that could not look you in the eye because his eyes were constantly darting around.

They are over-diagnosed (by schools and parents more than doctors), and Ritalin is over-prescribed, but they are real.
I think people who reject these two have no experience with them, or have only been in situations in which the problem was self-diagnosed.

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What is the debate? I daresay a lot of “people on the internet” are not trained psychiatrists or mental health professionals and are not able to make meaningful statements on what constitutes a “real” mental illness. People do work hard to compile authoritative indices such as the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. These are not perfect, but they do represent a genuine best effort and are constantly revised and updated.

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I don’t think it is so much that people deny that these conditions exist, but believe that they are overdiagnosed or improperly diagnosed.

It is sort of like how some people call everyone they do not like a “narcissist.” There is such a thing, but if one looks at the symptoms, he or she could easily say that fits the definition of most people. See also “borderline personality disorder.”

Also, some people do indeed use the disorder as a crutch. Some parents are too lazy to discipline their children and make them pay attention in school so they simply declare that they have ADHD and its not their fault that little Johnny is an asshole. Maybe he does have ADHD, but it seems like we should try “parenting” before ritalin.

My brothers and I joke that our late mother had an uncanny ability to distinguish between actual conditions (things *she *suffered from) and psychosomatic ones (things others suffered from).

I wasn’t aware of that development. That’s the best news I’ve heard in months.

Once in a while, a person may be so severely affected with a mental condition that it’s immediately obvious that something is wrong with them the instant you meet them. Flat affect, refusal to talk about anything other than what they want to talk about, speech that makes no sense, etc.

I’m a 50-year-old man who similarly can’t look you in the eye. It doesn’t magically disappear.

In fact, this statement is nearly pure bullshit. It’s trivially easy to tell the difference between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and normal. Sure everyone has a narcissistic trait or two, but it’s not vaguely similar. Same goes for BPD.