Shayna, it sounds like you had a really bad experience. Stories like that make me shudder, because there really are wonderful veterinarians out there, but they can be hard to find!
One thing I would like to stress to everyone who has a pet: Don’t take everything your vet tells you as the God given truth. Vets can and do make mistakes. If your vet advises something you are not comfortable with, get a second opinion! A GOOD vet should not mind this. Also, I advise being an INFORMED client. If your vet talks to you about something you don’t understand, ask questions. Ask for handouts. You can research on your own, but this can be a sticky situation, since you may find poor advice. (I really hate it when a client says, “Well, I read on this webiste, and it says…” and then the info they repeat back to me is totally wrong, but since the client read it on the net it must be true!)
If you are currently unhappy with your choice of vet, do some research before getting a new one. Look for a hospital that is AAHA (American Animal Hospital Assoc) certified. Certified hospitals have certain standards that must be met, standards that put them (usually) above a non certified hospital. If you don’t have any certified hospitals in your area, look for board certified vets. Board certified vets have to do more schooling and have to do continuing education constantly, so they have the most modern, up to date information. consider the pros and cons of having a young vet vs an older one. I know most people would want an older vet, but the vet profession is expanding at an alarming rate, and many old vets cling to old ways. While young vets have less hands on experience, they have the newest ideas and knowledge. Please keep in mind that this information is not carved in stone. You may find a young, certified doctor in a certified hospital, and he or she may still really suck at being a doctor. The info provided here is to give the layperson some basic information that can get them on the right track to finding a good vet.
It also helps if you go to several vets in the area just to check out the hospital and to ask questions about how the practice is run. Any good hospital should allow you a complete tour of the facility, except for dangerous areas like x-ray. If they don’t, beware.
AAHA has a website where you can find a nationwide listing of all currently certified hospitals. They might also be able to direct you to a board certified doctor.
I hope this info has been helpful.