Great thread so far. I’m really enjoying that.
I always thought that Mr. Darling was a pretty bad father. Ineffectual, definitely, although maybe not outright cruel. In the Disney version, he seems more like a normal father, who is put in the unpleasant task of disciplining the children (the mother just seems too…nice to ever raise her voice), but who does regret having to do so.
But in the book, that scene where Mr. Darling won’t take the medicine and Michael does makes him seem at best a hypocrite, and at worst a plain coward–probably the most horrible thing for one’s parent to be. Mr. Darling just looks all the more like an idiot, especially when a small child like Michael will go through with the agreement of taking his medicine.
When I first found out that Mr. Darling and Captain Hook were often played by the same actor, I did have a few Freudian fantasies. But it does make sense…casting the father in the role of villain, they’ve essentially gotten rid of anything masculine in NeverLand. The male adults are cruel, cast off into the safe role of an enemy who can be slaughtered, whereas in real life, they have to be dealt with. And Wendy takes on the mother role, and is idealized. I’m not sure what that makes the Indians–perhaps they symbolize the disorder and chaos that children crave? Seen this way, the book looks like, not only an embracing of childhood, but more of a rejection of all things traditionally masculine.
One thing I also noted when reading the book, how adult and how childlike it is at the same time. At the end, Barrie says something about the children being “heartless,” because, after all, their parents have no idea where they’ve gone. In the movie, however, they come back, and the parents don’t even know anything has happened. And Peter Pan himself, the ultimate child, is incredibly selfish. He drops a sleeping Michael in the air when they’re on their way to NeverLand, and only retrieves him when Wendy begs him to do so. So…perhaps the moral, childhood is fun, but children aren’t so innocent. A look at their fantasy life tells you that in an instant.