I have some knowledge about coaching in leagues similar to this from my husband who used to be a coach. He coached little league for 9/10 and softball for teenagers.
In general, it is the practice of these leagues to NOT intentionally walk players because it defeats the purpose of the everyone bats rule.
For example, 1 year my hubby’s team was playing in a championship tournament. In this case, everyone bats, but it was a coed league and rules required boy/girl/boy/girl. 1 team, knowing that in general, girls perform worse at the plate than boys, played the whole tournament by walking the boy and pitching to the girl. Even though a few runs were scored when a girl did get a hit, they overwhelmingly gained an advantage. It was within the rules, but was widely criticized. Hubby faced them in the final game and lost. The girls felt really dejected on his team and there was a lot of parental frustration. The umpires were even upset. So much so, that they changed the rules next year. If a boy walked, intentionally or not, the next batter automatically walked (actually they had the option of walking or hitting).
In little league, it was similar. There is really no way to enforce a “no intentional walk rule” because you can always mask a walk by just pitching poorly. However, except on the finest teams (handpicked for talent), there were always at least 5 or 6 kids (25-30%) that just were not good hitters. A coach, theoretically, could walk all the other kids, and target the worst hitters, thereby using a similar strategy as espoused in the previous story, and likely win a lot of games. This is why the practice is not expressly forbidden, but highly discouraged.
In this case, in the absence of a complete set of facts, it is likely the one coach decided to intentionally walk this one player because of the situation. Championship game, last inning, one out etc… If this was the only intentional walk he used, then he was very selective about when to use it and did so to win, as he stated. Although it does not rise to the overall pattern of subjugating the spirit of the rules to win in a systematic manner, it still reeks of the same poor tactics that take a game, designed to be fun, and turn it into a pure competition.
This is another example of competition overshadowing fun.
In the coaches defense, the cancer survivior story, IMHO, is an over emphasized plea for sympathy and sensationalizes the decision. There are many kids who cannot hit well for various reasons, and the fact that this child had cancer is irrelevant to the story. I assure you, a coach could have figured out the good and bad hitters by the last inning and could have used this same strategy if the child was simply not a good hitter, and not just a cancer survivor.
In sum, the coaches decision was questionable, but the use of the cancer survivor story simply oversensationalizes this situation and really should not be considered when evaluating whether or not a person agrees with his decision. Rather, one should only ask themselves, was it wrong to intentionally walk a good hitter to get a bad hitter up in a pressure situation?
I asked hubby what he would have done (not adding the cancer into the story, but simply stating facts: good hitter/ bad hitter, situation, league rules and game scenario), he thought for a bit and said, “I’d pitch to the good hitter, but I would have told the pitcher to throw around the hitters strengths, if he walked, he walked, but to target a weaker hitter is bad sportsmanship at that level, regardless of the game situation, championship be damned”.