So DragonAsh, the answer is “No. No one here can explain the ME conflict … without succumbing to political grandstanding anyway.”
Try Brief History of of Palestine, Israel and the Israeli Palestinian Conflict (Arab-Israeli conflict, Middle East Conflict) for a fairly balanced historical overview, though.
My short answer:
Jews, despite being kicked out of the region nearly two thousand years previous, had both always maintained a presence in palestine and never relinquished their claim To them it was always the homeland. End of the 19th and beginning of the 20th century they began in small numbers moving into Palestine. Palestine was at that point a region of the Ottoman Empire inhabited by a variety of Arab groups in fairly small numbers. Where Jews moved in, Arabs moved in as well, as Jews brought with them investments and jobs. Problems really began when certain elements of the Arab leadership of the time saw, in these Jews, an opportunity for personal political hay, and began to stoke up fear of this “other” for personal purposes. most notorious of these was the Grand Mufti of Jerusalum, who spearheaded quite a few riots and massacres before joining up with the Nazis. Some Jewish elements fought back and some choose to go the route of reprisals. There were early self-defense groups and early Zionist terroist groups both. Jewish immigration increased of course during HaShoah.
I suspect you know about the promises made by Britain … suffice it to say that a small Israel was born and that Arabs of the region left. It is a mattter of debate as to how much they left at encouragement of Arab leaders and how much they were “encouraged” none too gently by Zionist interests. Meanwhile no debate an equal number of Jews were forced out of Arab lands.
Arab leadership did not absorb the refugees nor create a Palestine out of the areas then controlled. It served leadership to keep the refugees there and to keep the conflict up. Israel turned out o be a tough nut to beat though, and what was possibly originally felt to be a short-term starage issue until the whole region was Arab, turned into a persistent issue, as multiple wars failed to destroy Israel.
The Six Day War changed the dynamic. Arab governments gave up destroying Israel, but were still well served by maintaining a conflict with an “other”. They refused to recognize or to negotiate with Israel but also gave up the fight to beat her. Israel made the same mistake with the refugees that early Arab leadership made: they assumed that this was a short-term situation until arab leadership came around and appeased elements within the country by building settlements. Big mistake, IMHO, both ethically (annex or don’t; if not then you are stewards serving the interests of the occupied.) and strategically. Palestinians (for that is what this previously ragtag mixed bag of Arabs had become, a distinct identity) went into the terror tactic resistence mode. Israel ceased being the underdog and became the big dog.
Throughout too many seperate groups have had their self-interests served by keeping the conflict alive and Palestinians have been manipulated throughout, to this day. now it is not that the big governments need the ditraction of the other to rally against to distract away from their own despotic ways, but that Islamist fundamentalists need a boogeyman to rally people against modernity and the West with.
Peace is ill-served by trying to make up for percieved past injustices, accurate or fictional. Someday the planets will align and each side will have leaders that care more about a shared future of mutual benefit than short term gain or revenge for what they think is the past. When Jupiter aligns with Mars.