Martin Hyde, the big problem is that transsexuality can NOT be changed by any NON-medical means we are aware of. It’s not like people haven’t tried.
I suppose it would be possible to argue that if we could wave a magic wand and make all the transsexuals happy with their bodies and feel like they were the gender their genitals proclaim them to be, that would be the “best” solution. But whether it is or not is irrelevant - we don’t have the magic wand. It doesn’t exist.
At which point, you’re looking at damage control. What can we do to minimize the pain these people are going through? After all - it’s claimed 1/4 of them will committ suicide if we don’t do something. That’s a pretty nasty problem!
Let’s take a little detour back to the amputation issue - amputation is a horrible thing to do to someone BUT - it is justifiable if it is necessary to save a human life. Remember that guy a couple years back who went hiking by himself in Utah, wound up trapped in a canyon, and had to cut his own hand off to escape death? That wasn’t crazy - it was a logical action carried out after all other possible alternatives had been exhausted. Justifiable because it saved his life.
Now, let’s go back and look at our unhappy, unmodified transsexual. We can’t change what’s in their head. We have no treatment, no therapy, no drug that will make them happy in their natal physical gender. They are so unhappy and distressed they are at a VERY high risk of death. This is a circumstance where drastic measures can be justified.
No, we can’t truly make the bodies match the minds. But if we can reduce the distress and given them a better life… well, seems to me no one has the right to stand in their way. So, to my mind, the questions are - does the suicide rate go down in treated transexuals? If it does, the treatment is justified. Does the rate of other symptoms of distress go down in treated transexuals? If it does, the treatment is justified. Are they happier, do they function better (remain employed, pay the bills, refrain from self-destructive behavior, etc.) after treatment? If yes, the treatment is justified.
I don’t think any transsexual here is going to say our current treatment methods are perfect… they are simply the best we have at present.
And I think, after talking with transsexuals here on the Dope I think perhaps us more normal folks focus a little too much on the surgery and not enough on some of the other aspects like hormone treatments and being allowed to live without harassment and other social trauma. There clearly ARE transsexuals who take hormones and are content to live without surgery even if some of their bits don’t match other bits or what’s in their head. Maybe they’re waiting for better surgical techniques. Maybe it’s just that they don’t need surgery as much as a different hormone balance. I don’t know.
I’ll admit, I still find the idea of transsexualism freaky most of the time. No, I’m not comfortable with it, it does disturb me, and I can’t say I understand it in any but the most analytical manner - emotionally I just don’t “get it”. But, you know what? How I feel doesn’t matter. This isn’t about MY discomfort, it’s about the discomfort of these other people. It’s THEIR life, THEIR bodies, THEIR needs - not mine or yours. It’s about what eases their pain, not mine; their confusion, not mine. Because I can walk away from this problem, it’s outside me - for them, it’s not something they can ever get away from.
If the price of keeping KellyM or Eve or Lazz or these other find folks in this world is radical surgery… well, if they find it a fair trade then it is. Because it’s about them, not me or you.