I strongly suspect that I’m one of those “culture warriors” you’re referring to. “Condemn” is a ridiculous word to describe what I might do, which is, “criticize” or “educate.”
If someone uses (for example) the word “gyp” to describe being ripped off, I might say, “Hey, I don’t want to make a big deal, and I used to use that word, but you maybe should realize it’s based on an ethnic stereotype of gypsies, so maybe use ‘ripped off’ instead?”
And that’s how virtually every confrontation I’ve heard around unintentional use of problematic language has gone. If someone is so fragile that they can’t stand even that, the problem isn’t with political correctness.
They would if there were an enormous propaganda machine connected to a major political party under the control of a megalomaniacal lying president all focused on convincing them that it was a problem. Just, y’know, for hypotheticals.