As to the term “colored” applied to…them. I missed using the term, and have for some years returned to using it, largely because I think the entire hyphenate-American usage is clumsy, stupid, and pointless. And it has an unfortunate pedigree, in my opinion.
When I was but a lad, studying for admission to the penitentiary, the term “colored” was a polite reference and its usage stated that the (presumably white) user was making the effort to use a polite and semi-formal reference. It was a way of indicating a mildly progressive attitude (for Texas) without making a BHAD out of it.
The rules were rather complicated. My grandfather drove the bus that served the “colored” part of town, he got to know the regular riders, and they got to know him. When politely addressing him, the called him “Mr. Rip” (which was usual, everybody called him Rip for Ripley…) He might called them “Ms. Jones” or, given direct permission, called her “Sarah”. But she would never address him as “Rip”. Even when black drivers were hired, even when they became Teamsters, they always called him “Mr. Rip”.
Now, was this racist? Well, of course it was, Texas was racist, no two ways about it. But it was human, it was a way for people to adjust to reality as it was, and to assure each other of their benign intentions. And I honor that humanity and that intent, and if I thought African American was the best way to do it, I wouldn’t hesitate. But I don’t think so, I think it has a soiled heritage, I think the hyphenate is artificial and mechanical, I think it fosters more seperation rather than fostering integration and a sense of welcome.
But if the colored people I know tell me that the term hurts their feelings, then by golly its done for!