I’m going to make a lot of typos trying to respond to various posts about Mormonism because I’m posting on my phone but here goes. Also if you aren’t interested in the Mormon aspect or prefer a more positive view of its history, you can scroll past,
I’m from polygamous stock—two of my great-grandparents were born in polygamous families. I also studied a bit about it after I left Mormonism.
Interesting, this is sort of right but also reflects a popular misconception which the LDS church wants the World to believe.
The founder, Joseph Smith, had a large number of wives. As it was illegal and also done in secret from the common members and while was an open secret among the top leaders, it was still a secret and not everyone knew everything.
It’s generally thought Smith had in the range of 50 to 60 wives, but scholars disagree on the exact number. It certainly wasn’t just a handful nor in the hundreds. The youngest were child-brides with the youngest two documented as 14 (almost 15 as the official LDS website helpfully points out). There were women married to other men, not only to “Gentiles” or non-believers but also some who were married to Mormon men. He would send the husband on distant missions and propositioned their wives.
As a devout Mormon, my mother taught me and my siblings about polygamy from when we were very young. I was surprised to grow up and discover that not all Mormons were aware of the history of polygamy in Mormonism.
The LDS church has gone to great lengths to downplay or cover-up polygamy, including attempting to erase the existence of the marriages and modifying quotes from early leaders to avoid any mention of the practice. Ironically, downplaying this contributes to the recruitment of active LDS members by the fundamentalist groups as people attempt to become more devout.
After the early Mormons fled to the wilds of Utah and the surrounding areas, they began openly practicing polygamy. There were many problems with the Mormon practice. There was never a shortage of men so many with lessor status went without as young men. In the days without systematic forms of retirement, many often young widows of higher status males married lower status men.
The idea is “sister wives” happily living together seems to be the exception rather than the rules. More often than not the waves were set up in separate households. Many of Brigham Young wives were dispatched to outlying areas without any financial support and left to fend for themselves.
Divorce was easily obtained with Brigham Young personally benefiting by collecting a fee as the governor.
Almost all the plural marriages were with just a few wives. Both of my polygamous ancestors each had three wives and 20+kids, although the possibility apocryphal story has one church leader asking a boy at an event whose child he was and the boy replying “Yours, Father.”
The federal government was determined to eliminate the practice and when withholding statehood and even jailing husbands failed to curb it, the government started seizing Mormon property, including the all important temples.
Mormon theology taught that polygamy was a requirement for the highest degree of salvation, the place in heaven where became a god or goddess yourself and it wasn’t until the location for the essential rites were seized that the Mormons relented.
A common misconception, actively pushed by the LDS church, is that revelation then lead to the elimination of the doctrine of polygamy. This was not the case.
The president of the Mormon church had his secretary draft a “To Whom it May Concern” statement “advising” members to not break the law. This statement satisfied the Federal government; the properties were returned and Utah eventually became a state. However; new polygamous marriages were continued in secret. Many were performed in Canada and Mexico.
Eventually a subsequent leader made the decision to eliminate the secret authorization of new plural marriages which drove the practice even further underground. Apostles were performing ceremonies in secret and one crackdown involved top leaders being asked if they were aware of such ordinances being performed, often with the questioner being the very person who had secretly approved the marriage.
The First Manifesto was issued in 1890 and the final officially approved marriages stopped in the 1910s, perhaps as late as1920. Because of the secrecy involved, it was inevitable that splinter groups would be formed.