The feminist attitude against prostitution is incredibly infantalizing to me. They conclude that no woman of her free will could decide that using her body for sex is her preferred method of making money. That all acts of prostitution are acts of coercion by men, and that no one would make a free choice into it. And so women cannot choose to use their sexuality for money, because they must be protected from themselves, or because that’s not a valid choice anyone can make. Either way it’s insulting to women and takes away their agency.
Yes, in some situations, women are coerced into sex work, and that’s wrong. But people can be forced into other sorts of work too - say, people who’ve been trafficked into a richer country, but the people who traffic them hold their passports and force them to work in a sweatshop. That doesn’t mean we should ban one gender from working in textiles in order to attack those cases of legitimate coercion. That’s why we should seek out and punish the coercion itself.
Which is actually better addressed by legalization. Legalization of prostitution empowers women - they don’t need pimps if they’re working a legitimate prostitution job in a regulated, protected way.
But it’s really not about that. It’s about the idea that no one could possibly make an informed, adult decision to sell their sexuality, so in any such cases, the person may be a victim. That’s incredibly patronizing and, in some cases, puritanical.
Wouldn’t it be fucking wonderful if people didn’t have to work jobs they hated just so they could put food on the table? But where’s your concern for, well, the vast majority of everyone who has to work to live?
Plenty of people work degrading jobs that they hate more than the average prostitute hates theirs. But they aren’t special to you because selling your time as a sexual service is somehow more vile than selling your time in some other way. I can assure you that I, and countless other people, have held jobs that they view as being inferior to prostitution - who would switch to prostitution instantly if given the opportunity as a better alternative. But if some guy works some backbreaking, difficult job that compromises his health while humiliated by his asshole boss for $12 an hour, no one cares. But if a woman chooses to do much easier work for much better pay, voluntarily, because it’s better than the alternatives, then it’s some kind of crime against humanity and surely someone forced that on her, and she didn’t choose it for herself.
You can only think such way if you have weird puritanical ideas about sex, that it’s somehow so precious and magical that no one could possibly make a legitimately informed decision have sex for money, and that they all become damaged by it, or you have some regressive ideas towards women that they, in particular, are incapable of making that decision because they just don’t know any better, and you do. You rob them of that agency and infantilize them.
And so it’s ironic and funny to me that feminists lead the charge on this issue, given that they nominally stand for anti-puritanism / women’s control of their sexuality, and women’s agency. Apparently unless you want to use your agency to do something they disapprove of. Then you’re a mindless victim.