This is something that I think is blindingly obvious and I’m constantly surprised to hear friends, acquaintances and one-time conversations with people in my daily travels who apparently don’t have a clue about.
If you need to do something to a dog that he’s not really happy about, especially if you need to do it with any kind of frequency, you should treat and praise him. The theory is that you change an unhappy experience into a happy experience (or at least tolerable).
Some examples:
Greyhounds have granny skin that tears easily, so it’s advisable to put a basket muzzle on when letting them play together in a yard or when confined together in small spaces like cars or x-pens. They’re used to wearing muzzles from their track days, but they still aren’t fond of them and try to rub them off. Lots of new greyhound owners scold their dogs for fussing with the muzzle. Don’t do that. Instead put a little peanut butter on the end of the muzzle where he can lick it off. Slip a cookie between the mesh and into his cookie hole. If he knows basic obedience, ask him to sit and treat him for it. (That not only distracts him from the muzzle but also makes it a happy experience.)
A friend told me yesterday that when she needs to brush her dog’s teeth he runs away from her. I told her to treat him; she’d never thought to do that. I treat my dogs after tooth-brushing; husband treats them before because he’s a stickler for not getting teeth dirty again after brushing (we alternate nights on brushing duty). End result for us? When we get out the brushes and toothpaste and sit on the floor, the dogs all but stampede over and plop down like kids eager to hear a story.
The same friend’s dog is getting old and incontinent and she was telling me how they have to put a doggy diaper on him and he hates it. Again my advice: associate having the diaper put on with getting a cookie. Cookie, diaper, diaper, cookie.
Depending on what motivates your specific dog, you can substitute lots of effusive pets and smooches, or a bit of playtime, for the treats. And once your dog starts to get the picture, you can alternate between his favorite rewards. And when his attitude is pretty good, you can maintain it that way by only rewarding him on an intermittent basis. My dogs get toothbrushing treats randomly one time out of three. They come-a-runnin’ because THIS could be the time they get some snackies!
And last of all, step into their paws for a second: would you rather be rewarded for tolerating something, or browbeaten, scolded, and chased for it?