Warning! Your computer is broadcasting an IP address!
Heh, heh. I’ve been wanting to say that for ages, now.
Seriously, though. Every computer connected to the Internet has an Internet Protocol, or IP, address. (An ISP is an Internet Service Provider.) An IP address is analogous to the street address of your house, with some caveats. See below.
Depending on this person’s blog, they may or may not have access to the logs which record who visits their site. If it’s something cheap or free, or if the person is not very technically inclined, it’s likely that the logs are ignored or unaccessible, in which case there’s not much need to worry. However, it can generally be expected that every visit to any site is recorded somewhere, mostly in the line of “IP address 12.34.56.78 requested foo and bar”. It is a little less trivial to associate a specific IP address with a specific person. (See the caveats below, mentioned above.)
Cookies can simplify this issue. They’re an identifying piece of data placed on the user’s computer that allow the website to track visits. For example, the Straight Dope places a cookie on your computer which allows it to remember who you are and if you’ve already logged in, so you don’t have to login every time you return to the site. However, even if you have your computer set to reject cookies, the Straight Dope’s server logs will still have a record of your visit.
Now, IP addresses aren’t necessarily set in stone. Static IP addresses are just that - static, and unchanging - and so the address 12.34.56.78 will always be the same computer. Dynamic addresses are much more common. An example would be an AOL user dialing into AOL. When they’re connected, they are dynamically assigned an IP address for their session. This address may be different each time they reconnect. However (even more caveats!) this isn’t guaranteed anonyminity – someone who uses dynamic addresses from the same provider will always get an address from that provider, so a pattern can be seen there if is someone from, say, AOL coming to the website repeatedly. If they needed to actually find out who that user was, they’d have to contact the adminstrators of AOL to get them to reveal who the actual user was behind that dynamic address.
Now, all of that being said, to answer the actual questions that you had:[list][li]Is all of this really necessary? It depends. Probably not.[]What does it mean that he collects cookies? It means that his website tries to track users. This is not necessarily bad or evil! See the Straight Dope example above. Many cookies are completely innocuous and give no personally-identifiable information. It’s also possible that his website itself is not setting a cookie, but rather an advertising banner on the page.[]Does every particular computer have an ISP address? Yes, see above.[]If she deletes all cookies, does that erase it? That deletes the cookies but it does not erase the IP address.[]She has DSL, does that mean that every time she logs on, she has a different ISP address? I don’t know enough about her situation to answer that question specifically, but see above regarding static and dynamic addresses.*Does it make a difference if she goes from her Yahoo account or a school one?Does she connect to the Internet the same way for both? It sounds like her DSL connection is the only way she connects, so her Yahoo or school email accounts would likely be irrelevant.[]*Does the ISP address show a string of numbers, her e-mail address, her name, or what?*An IP address is just a string of numbers separated by dots, like the 12.34.56.78 example above.[/li]
Now, I skimmed a lot and simplified some others, so there’s a lot for other people to clarify or expand upon. And I didn’t really answer your question of whether she’s overly paranoid or not, but that’s something that really depends on the circumstances.