Reading as a child: a survey

I was an early reader, flashlight under the cover at 2am, would get in trouble for reading ahead in school and read high school level by about 4th grade.

I married a non-reader.

The younger one never would even slow down to be read too. Maybe two minutes tops. The older one was diagnosed with a sequencing disorder before he started school. He hated the extreme effort of sorting out the words but loved to be read to until he was about 11 or 12. Sometimes still when he is studying he will say he’s read a chapter of a text but wants to hear it read aloud and asks me to read to him. It’s one of those “coping” skills they taught him when he was five or six, plow through, do the reading even though it’s so difficult you lose the meaning and understanding just sorting out the words and then listen to someone else read. He does not read for pleasure ever.

I think it’s both nature and nurture. I suppose it’s possible that he’ll begin to enjoy reading someday, but not likely.

Originally posted by whiterabbit:

I never go anyplace without at least one book; I have a purple totebag in which to carry them.

Harry Turtledove’s latest, “American Empire: Blood and Iron”, I ordered from Amazon a few weeks ago, but I’m saving it to read on the plane to Toronto in a couple weeks!

Loved the earlier volumes, couldn’t put 'em down.

I believe that a deep appreciation of literature takes a great deal of effort over many years. It is extremely important that readers learn how to identify books which are of interest to them and which they have the ability to read, but also challenge them. This usually requires assistance early on from parents, followed through as the child grows into an adult with assistance from librarians, teachers and professors, publishers (through selected reading lists and anthologies), and fellow readers. Without such assistance along the way, young readers may be left not finding material of appropriate and sufficient depth, and fall out of the habit of reading, and once out of that habit, will then face difficulty picking it up again for want of a critical skill set appropriate to the material that as adults should be of interest to them.

Thus most people do not get into reading, and if they do, they avoid the heavy stuff and instead burn through one serial/genre after another, which really is no different than sitting in front of the boob tube watching prime time drama and sit-coms.

My folks read to me from day one (well actually day two; on day one when I was presented to my mom she screamed “what is it?”, but that’s another story). My mom even typed up stories of her own to read to me. From early on, books read to me were a primary form of entertainment, and as soon as I could I learned to read so that I could have more fun.

There were few children in my neighbourhood, TV was limited (an old Marconi which needed fixing most of the time, very few channels, and extremely limited children’s programming – pre Sesame Street). In other words, books held a much more important role in my life than they would most kids today simply by virtue of there not being much else to do other than to play by myself.

Grade one was particularly significant for me, for the day prior to school starting in the fall I fell out of a tree and landed in traction in the hospital for a few months. For those months, I read most of each day (The World of Pooh was my fav!).

Once out of the hospital, my folks gave me my first library card. What an adventure going to the library was! Every couple of weekends, the whole family would pile into the car and head downtown to the small limestone building, where my sister and I would stand in awe at all the books, knowing that with the hot little cards in our hands, we could each have any three of them until our next trip for more. What a life-long love affair that card began!

I didn’t notice any difference between me and other kids until grade four, when our teacher let us pick books for him to read to us. Nancy Drew or Hardy Boys were the fare chosen by my classmates. By that time I had read enough to have begun developing a critical awareness, and found that Nancy Drew and The Hardy Boys did not hold my attention the way Stevenson, Dumas, Kipling ang Carroll did.

By our teenage years the critical gap had grown, which gave me a huge advantage in English class in highschool and later at university, for although we could all read well enough, I had a much greater ability to place what we read within a critical, cultural and historical context thanks to already having read a great whumping pile of stuff over the previous years. This in turn led to career opportunities for me that my chums did not have (I ended up first an English professor and later a lawyer), and more importantly, has left me with the skill set necessary to read at a high level in a wide range of areas, rather than just at one level or in one area. If the right combination of encouragement, assistance and resources had not been available to me as a developing reader, I don’t think I’d be the reader I am today.

I have emergency books stashed around my house and my parents’ cars. My backpack starts to look like a portable library after a while, so I have to clear out all my books occasionally. Can’t fit in my textbooks if I have an entire book series stuffed inside.
I’ve been known to read soup cans or lotion bottles in desperation, so it’s just one of those essential items.
jessica

I’ve also been reading forever. In junior high I tested off the scale (12th grade +) for reading. Read by night light, read my first grown up novel at 11 (a Bagley thriller IIRC), and all that other stuff most of you all did too.

Hubby never read as a kid but now reads whenever possible, we both read to our 3 year old who just last night asked me to teach him to read. I think readers are born, but they have to be nutured.

Embarrasingly, I read volumes of very bad books as a child. All of you people that were reading Dostoyevsky at the age of 4…suck. :stuck_out_tongue: I read all these incredibly inane, yet addictive, R.L. Stine books. In addition, I used to buy lots of “young adult” books out of these newsprint Scholastic book orders we used to get at school.

I read a lot, and still do, but I read badly. Growing up, I rarely moved on to new authors, but liked staying with the favorites. I remember my parents buying me the Reader’s Digest Condensed Books, and despite having the entire set, I read very, very few of the books.

I liked books with pictures more, and Life magazine (the first, giant-sized edition) was a particular favorite. I was introduced to Picasso through an issue devoted entirely to his work.

My wife and I have 3 kids (ages 11, 4 and 2) and they all have bookcases with books appropriate for their age. One caveat: my 11-year-old has access to my comic collection, so he’s up on Popeye (the Segar version), Steve Canyon, the Spirit, Calvin & Hobbes, Far Side and Garfield. We read to our younger kids every night, and sometimes during the day if time permits and we’re in the mood. Otherwise, they’ll sometimes sit and go through their books, and it’s quite precious to see them together, sitting quietly and reading their picture books. I wonder what they’re thinking as they try to make sense of their world.

Our 11-year-old checks out books, but he’ll stick with the more popular favorites (he’s read the Harry Potters, the Redwalls and is now listening to Hank the Cowdog tapes). Since we’ll be home-schooling him, he’ll be exposed to lot more offerings.

Early reader. Constant reader. I and my brother.

I’m surprised we made it to adulthood without being run over by a car since we both used to walk home from school every day with our noses in a book. I often arrived home without realizing how I got there, being so engrossed in the story.

It runs in the family, on one side anyway. My dad is an avid reader. My grandmother (Dad’s mom) would read constantly and then send boxes of the books she finished on to us kids. The best presents ever!!

My mom enjoys it, but has a tendency to fall asleep while reading. She’s not quite the addict that the rest of us are.

rivulus

Ah…very bad books. Those were what I read. The Babysitters’ Club. All of the books were the same three plots, recycled over and over. Junk food for the mind, but pretty fun to read. [sub]I still read them sometimes…don’t tell my English teacher.[/sub]

And those Scholastic book orders were my highlight of the month. Book fairs only came twice a year, but the book orders? I loved them.

My parents didn’t care, as long as I read some decent books here or there. I do remember my mother pleading with me to read something better, but she never did anything about it.
jessica

When I lived in Russia (up until I was almost 16), I was more of a reading addict than I am right now, even though my school workload because 10 times lighter.

I didn’t have a computer when I lived back there. Now I spend the time I used to spend reading, chatting online.

err, BECAME 10 times lighter.
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Yeah. I don’t really remember what I read when I was younger, mainly what I liked. Yeah, I read the babysitters club ones, too. Hehe. :slight_smile: those rocked…er, back then.

I first learned at about age four, and I always have like to read since then. So you see, it’s been a happy story ever since day one.

Asked my mother last night about this question and learned one embarrasing thing. Apparently when I was about 6 I would sit around and just read our family’s encyclopedia. This was in the late 60s, since I was too young for drugs and free love I guess there was nothing else to do. I recall it was my father’s encyclopedia from when he was a kid, so the history of everything ended in 1944. The end of WWII was a mystery. It didn’t even have color pictures. What a geek! I have totally repressed that memory.

I was an insatiable reader from about age 4. I, too, devoured encyclopedias; my grandparents had (and still have) a 1965 Britannica. I tackled Tolkien at seven. Most of what I read for a while after that was non-fiction and westerns. I got started on sci-fi in earnest at about thirteen or fourteen, detective stories at about the same time (Ellery Queen, not Encyclopedia Brown). Thrillers followed at about eighteen.

My son reads a great deal, too. He’ll be 8 in October. I think I’m going to wait until all the Tolkien books become really hot stuff this Christmas and get him a nice set of his own and see how he likes it.

We both read a lot because (IMHO) we were both read to a lot as small children and learned to read for ourselves before turning five. My mother read to me all the time. Dewalk’s mother never read to him much but my mother and step-father did whenever he was with them, which was a lot before my ex moved to North Carolina last year. My brother was never much of a reader and it kind of dovetails with why I am. Mom went back to work when he was just turning four and he didn’t learn to read until 1st grade.

I have always been a reading addict. My mother and father divoreced when I was young and reading was my escape from having a mother that was hardley ever home. Now still as an adult I read just about anything that I can get my hands on as long as it interests me.

I learned to read mostly by looking over mom’s shoulder as she read to me…I think I can still recite Pokey Little Puppy, The Little Engine That Could, and Huff-and-Puff Express by heart (God bless Golden Books…). By 2nd grade, I was hooked on Encyclopedia Brown (the Bantam, not Apple series). Those were the last fiction books I read for a long while, as I got hooked on Dinos and science books. In third grade, I got through the reader much too fast, and spent most of the year reading any other book than found its way into the classroom, including the Chronicles of Narnia, 21 Balloons, and a set of science encylopedias (hard-core nerd!). By 5th grade, I had worked through the World Book and Roget’s (sad, sad, sad, I know). In middle school, I got back into fantasy, and even as the Cold War waned, I read the (suprisingly many) books our school library had about US-Soviet relations, especially those about nuclear weapons, and also the many about theoretical physics and cosmology. As a result, geography and current events became central interests, leading me to team debate in high school, where I developed a serious Economist habit. Now I read Clancy, natural history, and biographies of famous figures in science, or whatever tickles my fancy at the local library. The last book I read was “Island of Lost Maps”.

My siblings (younger sister and brother) never cared much for reading. They do it for classes (my little bro is starting college; I’m so old!) but not for fun. And to think mom read to all of us. Cavewoman, on the other hand, has a similarly nerdy past, and is currently addicted to several mystery authors.

My mom says I taught myself to read before I started Kindergarten.

While obviously not a strict requirement, it definitely helps when you grow up in a house full of books. There were seven kids and we each got a least one book for our birthday and Christmas. And sometimes we just got them. I remember the day my mom walked into my room and just handed me The Chronicles of Narnia set, which had arrived in the mail that day. We had Sherlock Holmes, the Oz books, the Caldecott & Newbery Awards, etc., all kinds of good stuff. Plus my parents had a big library of books, fiction and non-fiction.

When my SO and I bought our house, everyone said “Isn’t that a lot of space for just two people?” Heh. Where did you think we were gonna put our BOOKS? When the realtor was showing us houses, she took us to one and said, “I thought of you when I saw this one, because you said you had a lot of books.” It had a little tiny built-in bookcase that would have held 50-75 books, tops. I tried very hard not to laugh hysterically, and failed.

But I have a question: I wonder what percentage of us readers were shy kids? A large one, I would bet.

One of the things about being a reader is how much time it takes up. Those kids who don’t read are obviously doing something else in that time, and would have to give it up to read. Out playing with other non-readers? Did we have the time to read because we required less human contact?

Well I am an avid reader… I read a good few books a week and generally have several going at once. Most of the ones I read are brain candy (lots of Fantasy lately having to do with elves. and for some reason I haven’t yet got into Tolkien… don’t hit me) I read most of some books and then never finished them like 1982 (Um I think that’s it I can’t think right now) I really mean to get it out again and finish it.

I don’t recall reading at as early an age as these people but I know that when I learned to read in grade 1 I just zoomed on and never looked back. My mom always read to me when I was small… actually I still have my fave book from then, a collection of fairy tales. My fave from the then was Three Billy Goats Gruff… now it’s Little Mermaid.

You people say you got in trouble for reading too much? Well my Grandparents used to (and still try to) stop me from reading. They say it is a waste of time. Just like being online and watching movies and almost anything else I do. Then they were always on my brother’s case to read more. Bah… ah well.

I also was punished as a child by being forbidden to read. I taught myself before age 3, by watching the book while my mother read to me. She discovered that I knew how when I started reading aloud one of the books in the pediatrician’s waiting room.

Fortunately, I am able to reread, or my current book expenses might exceed my rent. I mostly read SF and 19th century fiction (Anthony Trollope, Jane Austen, William Thackeray, etc.), but nothing is really safe from me, from the back of the cereal box on up.

We were read to, early and often. My brother and I are both still readers, even though we are very different in a lot of other ways. (I also credit it to spending several months a year at a house with no TV, where reading was the major rainy-day activity.)

We started reading to our kids as soon as they could sit up and look at the book, if not before. (Come to think of it, my daughter heard the whole LOTR trilogy read even before she was born.)

They are 2 and 4 now and both love books. If you are sitting on our couch longer than 15 minutes, chances are very good the 2-yr-old will hand you a book and plop himself down in your lap.

Our 4-year-old has heard “Charlotte’s Web,” “Alice in Wonderland,” “The Hobbit,” “The Secret Garden,” and many other “big girl” books.