Regarding SDMB Administration: A Plea For Restraint

ZombiesAteMyBrain, if you use “preview” you can catch coding mistakes before they’re published, thereby freeing up the mods to deal with the “bigger issues” you mention and freeing you up to complain about other things. It’s a win-win!

I didn’t ask for my coding to be fixed - I have never before addressed this mod online, AFAIK, and I certainly didn’t ask to be called a disgusting name because the mod. concerned has so much contempt for my computer ability.

Would you be happy if a moderator called you a ‘douchebag’ for making a coding error? I’ve seen tons of coding mistakes on these boards before, and I don’t remember ever seeing this sort of response from a mod. to any other member.

Regardless of what the mod. implied in his post, I do not call other people names on this board, and I think I have a right to complain when he insults me for making a mistake that others make all the time with no comment from him.

Maybe we can get Ed to put a big red A next to their names, too…

Drama Queen???

ZombiesAteMyBrain, when somebody gets under your skin and really really annoys you on a message board…it doesn’t end well. UncleBeer has explained why he did what he did–you can disagree with it if you want, but there’s really nothing more to say now.

As for Tubadiva, she stepped over the line but the reason she was up to the line in the first place makes me think that she’s basically a good egg, and the suspension length is appropriate.

This is no small error. In case you missed it, you should probably go back and read Ed Zotti’s official statement again:

[bolding mine]

If it were limited to (a), I’d agree that a 30-day suspension is sufficient, as the party in question virtually revealed this information himself (real name in email address = DUMB DUMB DUMB!) It’s the (b) matter that’s most potentially damaging, and it’s small wonder that the staff is trying to downplay it. (cf. Dex’s “2%” comment, etc.) In fact, I wouldn’t worry so much about TD’s status; this could easily turn into a permanent banning for EVERYONE.

You see, that’s what makes this debate so interesting. It’s easy for someone to look at the details and assume that TD was acting in good faith. In fact, I agree that she did act in good faith, or at least she believed she was. She just went the wrong way about it. BIG time.

Keep up, Mehitabel, it wasn’t UncleBeer that insulted me - and the insult was totally uncalled for - I made a coding mistake.
Also, after your behavior with Aldebaran when he ‘got under your skin’ , surely you’re the last person to lecture me on correct MB etiquette.

Many people here, including myself, do not agree with you on this.

ZombiesAteMyBrain, if you’re so offended by “disgusting names” I suggest you not post in the Pit. I don’t care if you didn’t ask Ike to clean up your post or not- everyone else has to put up with your slop since you can’t be bothered to preview.

Who are you to tell me where I should or should not post - The Coding Police, perhaps?

The insult was totally gratuitous - I said nothing about the mod in question - but that obviously doesn’t matter to you - or him, for that matter.

If you don’t want to read my ‘slop’ I suggest you use the ‘ignore’ facility - or just don’t read any of my posts which might offend you with their awfully offensive poor coding.

Is pretty much what I’m saying, yes.
It’s been well over a week now since the Unfortunate Incident™. Ordinarily, the longest I’m able to sustain quivering righteous indignation is about an hour and a half. After that, I’m pretty much exhausted. YMObviouslyV.

Look, I’m usually first in line when it comes to bitching about the mods as many of them can no doubt tell you. But I think people are just a wee caught up in the drama, which can happen. I forget who said it (my apologies), but yes. It is time for cooler heads to prevail. You’re taking this far too seriously. Take a deep breath.

Also? This is the Pit. People insult people here. On a regular basis, in case you’ve missed the other threads. You probably won’t get the apology you feel you’re owed. You insulted Ike right back. Now let’s move right along shall we? I’m sure the conflagration you’re calling for will eventually happen. It may not be the subject of your choosing, but someone usually ends up frying for one reason or another if you wait around long enough. Will that satisfy your blood lust?

No way!! Go back and read the post - why doncha? I quoted his fantasy of what I was thinking to tell him that he was wrong about it.

Why shouldn’t mods have to apologise, even in the pit, when they throw a gratuitous insult at a member? Or are they so lofty that they are above the common decencies that we mere mortals expect?

Jesus, you’re a douchebag. My points were a) if you don’t like insults then you’re in the wrong forum, and b) Preview prevents slop from getting posted in the first place. You can post wherever the fuck you want but don’t expect anyone to care if you get insulted in the Pit because THAT’S WHAT HAPPENS IN THE PIT. Is that extra mouse-click to preview that big of a hassle for you, you stupid fucking bint?

God dammit, will you people stop calling me UncleBeer?

There are some limits, even in the Pit.

Charming, I’m sure!! Your mother must be very proud. As I’ve alreaqdy pointed out, I’m disabled. I can only use one hand properly to operate the computer - I do my best - but Jeez - I made one fucking coding error!!!

Even before I replied to Ike, other people had noted that his wording was not appropriate.

All right, kids, let’s chill here, OK? Also, I see we’re beginning to stray into a discussion of the he-said-she-said details of this incident, which I have said repeatedly I don’t want to happen. If the trend continues, I will close and hide this thread too.

Well, shoot. aruvqan had a post here that I was attempting to reply to, but I punched the wrong damn button and obliterated his/her post and replaced it with mine. That’s why I don’t do a lot of moderating around here. Sorry about that, chum, didn’t mean anything by it. -Ed Zotti

Hey! MY real name is in my email address! Does that make ME…yeah, I suppose it does. But it leaves it to you to wade through the soap operas and people with the same name but more interesting lives to finally learn that the only place I’m mentioned on the web is on a site for antique computers. Oh, and in the phone directory since my number apparently is no longer unlisted. Were I less boring all that might be different since I’m not THAT dumb.

My sincere apologies for mixing up UncleBeer and Ukeleke Ike. It’s even worse since I’ve had the pleasure of meeting the former gentleman.

Sorry, Ed. That will be my only and last comment on the incident.

I hope it’s permissible to post that I feel for ZombiesAteMyBrain – I thought the douchebag comment seemed unwarranted and must refer to a private joke or something. Upon finding out that it wasn’t, it seemed harsh. And reactions to her reaction seemed harsh, too. So anyway, ZombiesAteMyBrain, I’m sorry he called you that, even if this is the Pit.