As Poly said, I call myself a Christian despite that I am underserving of the term. Jesus defines a Christian (one who follows Christ) as someone who loves others. “By this will all men know that you are my disciples, that you love one another.” I love insufficiently. And I believe that my moral journey entails learning how to love.
That said, I bristle when I am called religious. Why? Well, it isn’t particularly because of one common definition of religion, meaning adherence to a belief in a Supreme Being. Rather, I think it’s because of the most common connotation, meaning adherence to a belief in a Supreme Body Politic.
Religion is one of those disciplines — like government or business — where politicians flourish. Men seek to control and manipulate other men for their own gain. I see images of bats flying out of belfries. Knights fighting Crusades. Church elders punishing Galileo.
In almost every personal encounter with people, Jesus was meek and humble, stooping to wash the feet of other men, visiting only where He was welcomed, assuring those who thought themselves worthless that He and His Father valued them beyond all measure. He forgave sin when merely asked. He healed sickness for nothing in return.
But although there were notable exceptions, almost every time that He confronted religious leaders (the politicians of the temple), He cut them no slack. And in fact, in one chapter of Matthew, He lambasted them in a no-holds-barred soliloquy, calling them “Snakes!” and “Vipers!” and “Whitewashed tombs, all clean and white on the outside, but inside full of dead men’s bones and decay!” He said that they search the ends of the earth for one convert and, having found him, turn him into “twice the son of hell you are yourselves.”
If it were easy to separate the “religion” of a humble person of faith with the “religion” of Jerry Falwell, then it would be different. But unfortunately, it seems that the whole politics thing is so entrenched that it will forever taint people of faith themselves. That’s why I say God despises religion. Religion glorifies men, not God.
So, while it might sound trite to say that it’s not a religion but a relationship, there is a reason that some people say it. And if someone asks me whether the first amendment protects relationships, my response is that the first amendment protects whatever the politicians want it to protect and nothing more.
Anyway, that’s how I see it.