Open to anyone who has gotten remarried following divorce or widowhood. Serious LTRs are welcome.
How similar are your two, five, seventy mates to one another?
I’m especially curious if widowed people are more likely to pick similar mates while divorced people are more likely to pick very different ones, so that data would be swell.
My husband is very, very different than my ex. It’d be along list to quantify why, but about the only similarity is that they both had dark hair when they were young. My current husband still does, too.
Completely different in personalities, body styles, every aspect is different.
#1 was my childhood sweetheart. We grew up together and could think of nothing we wanted more than to get out of school and marry. And once we did we could think of nothing more we wanted to do. So we divorced in our early 20’s, we live on opposite sides of the country and have seen each other only once in 30 years since. Cute, very short hispanic or amerind woman, she was adopted and didn’t really know her background.
#2 was the mother of my sons and we had nothing in common. Not morals, class, education, goals. A physical, rebound relationship. She headed toward self destruction, and I spent the 80’s and 90’s as a single dad. She exists somewhere but not even her sons have had any contact with her for many years.
Current and last wife is a wonderful, protective, strong willed, agressive, sweetheart of a tall, flaming redhaired Viking warrior godess.