For most of my adult life, I’ve been a Democrat. I remember taking my high school girl friend to the Democratic primary in 1976 and telling her to vote for Carter. When her very Republican father found out, he almost killed me.
In college, at very conservative university, I toed the Demo line, questioned and rebelled against anything remotely conservative.
After graduation, I was in a job that exposed me to a great many politicians on both sides. I remained a staunch Democrat. I believed in the plight of minorities and the working class. As a matter of fact, I still do.
I voted for Mondale, Dukakis and Clinton (twice). However, as I became more and more involved with people from the Democratic Party, I began to feel quite disillusioned. They said they supported minorities in public, but would ridicule them in private. They pandered to the working class and then dismissed them as rubes when they weren’t around. What really bothered me, though, was I saw that they were using these people for their own political ends (and, please, I know the Republicans do the same thing). And, ultimately, they couldn’t see the other side of any argument.
But my experience made me re-evaluate my reasons for siding with the Democrats. I honestly believe, however trite, in truth, justice and the American way. I only saw lip-service to this with the Democrats. They hated the military, but I couldn’t. They would hold hands with African-Americans at political rallies and call them niggers afterwards. Working people were ignorant rednecks who could be counted on in labor votes, but were discarded when issues important to them were considered.
I know this will fly in the face of many Democrats, but the Republican Party seems more willing to welcome people who can face adversity and make it own their own. When I look at the changing face of America, I see hope with the GOP, and the same old song and dance from the Democrats. I hesitate to say this, because in this day and age it should go without saying, but civil rights is an important issue that still needs to addressed. I will continue to work in the most effective way that I can to make this defining issue of the GOP. But, when it comes to treating people on an equal footing, I have to go with the Republicans. This is only my opinion from personal experience and I know many will have their own personal experiences that disagree.
This only scratches the surface of why I left the Democratic fold, but I want to emphasize that respecting people was a major consideration.