I was where OP is a few years ago. I hadn’t been able to find another job after a lay-off and my unemployment ran out. The only advantage, if you can call it that, was that I didn’t have kids to worry about - “just” a disabled spouse who was disabled enough no one would hire him but, apparently, not so disabled as to be able to get disability benefits. (Basically, the judge said that since he had a master’s degree he didn’t need to be able to walk or have working hands to get a job, he could think for a living. :rolleyes: )
It was scary, it was tough, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone so, OP, I do feel for you and wish you a heaping helping of good fortune this month, somehow, some way.
It IS a fact that many employers now will simply not consider anyone unemployed as a job prospect. Which just makes that particular hell all the worse.
Poverty sucks. Making it suck more will not provide more incentive for the long term unemployed to work harder at getting a job because it already sucks so bad that they’re working at it as hard as they can.
Having a college degree is no longer a guarantee of employment. When the desperate people with college degrees have gotten shit jobs in retail or burger-flipping it just pushes the problem further down the socioeconomic ladder. Yes, at some point you will take the minimum wage job because you have no choice, that doesn’t mean you won’t wind up bankrupt or homeless because minimum wage is NOT a living wage.
Sure, when the unemployment ran out I got “creative” and worked for myself for a couple years in between temporary and part time gigs. You know what? That also sucked. I never had sufficient capital to “grow the business” or get training for myself, it was a desperate scramble to survive while looking for a better job. I’ve done the self-employed thing several times in my life and while I didn’t screw up too badly I’ve actually had more success as someone else’s employee than as my own boss. It’s HARD to be a successful entrepreneur, and suggesting it as a solution to every long-term unemployed job seeker is just ludicrous. Only a minority of people - even educated people with real skills - have what it takes to be successful at it even in the best of times. It’s like suggesting everyone be a doctor or an Alaska crab fisherman - it’s unrealistic.
Sure, if you haven’t had any luck with job applications go ahead and try to set up a business of some sort… it might work. But if it doesn’t work it’s not some sort of proof someone is lazy or incompetent. Even the most well prepared new businesses struggle and more fail than succeed over the long term. It’s not quite as bad as suggesting people play the lottery but it’s nowhere near a sure route to success.
Retraining? How the hell do you get money for that? How do you put a roof over your family’s head, food on the table, AND pay for schooling? Training usually takes place during normal work hours, which interferes with holding a conventional job. It’s not an impossible dilemma but it’s far from easy. And what do you train in? Trades? It is to laugh - there are tens of thousands of tradesmen out of work right now, or flipping burgers at McDonald’s and yes that includes plumbers, electricians, and carpenters. Nursing? They’re laying off nurses at my area’s hospitals. Seriously, what should a person study these days?
Eventually, I wandered into shoe repair. I guess I have a high tolerance for sticking my hands in other peoples’ shoes all day (it helps that I don’t really have a great sense of smell). It got me back into full time work but it doesn’t help that the first people I worked for failed to give me all the training they promised THEN stiffed me for six weeks worth of wages and I finally had to drag their asses into court - I’m still out 1/10 of my annual income. Once again, I did everything right - showed up on time, educated myself, worked my ass off, came in on my days off to cover for no-shows, dealt with unhappy customers - and got the short end of the stick. Nor am I the only one I know whose employer simply stopped paying at some point. Well, OK, I did get another job in the field in short order, but at $0.50 less an hour (although I actually do get paid with checks that don’t bounce and don’t have to shoulder as much responsibility because the owner is competent and also shows up to work). It’s above minimum wage but it’s still not quite enough to make ends meet.
I mean, what the hell? I got my bachelor’s, I worked steadily for 25 or 30 years with no resume gaps, and now this? That’s the thing - millions of us did everything “right”, we got educated, we worked hard, and now find ourselves essentially tossed on the discard heap. And scolded for being lazy/stupid/unable to foresee the future/whatever the gripe is this week. We were supposed to construct our own safety nets and parachutes. Well, you know what? I did - that’s why I didn’t wind up homeless these past six years, but after six years of scrambling my reserves are gone. As they are for millions of others.
I have cut the budget to the bone, sold off possessions, worked my ass off, looked for more work, AND found a new trade - and it’s still not enough! Every day I pick myself up and try to find more/better solutions to my own list of problems but damn it gets discouraging at times even when you can manage to claw up another rung of the ladder from time to time.
Damn right people are pissed off. They have reason to be. And to hell with anyone who has a problem with the bitching because this is a real set of problems that isn’t going away and won’t be made better by kicking the folks who are down.