Actually, no, but that’s just me. The only prejudice I would have for the long term unemployed is that he was more than ok with not working, vs. a lack of skills. If he’s ok with not working, than he’s ok with half assing it. So I guess that would be the only flaw, but it might be a deal breaker.
Here’s the deal. I am surrounded by people who HAVE to work for their own mental stability. Whether it’s volunteering, taking on new skills, going back to school, learning a new hobby, fixing their house, fixing cars for their kids, snow blowing the neighbors driveway, coaching, or reading voraciously. So even if they were unemployed for a year, if they demonstrated a continuous drive to improve themselves and/or the world, I would be MORE likely to hire them than the two week guy.
Maybe that’s my fatal flaw.
And question to the OP, you’ve mentioned not taking a swing shift, not taking a menial job, not having the wife work, not giving up the boys’ gymnastics.
If there was no UI, what would you do? Honestly-what would you do?
I am not picking on you, I feel for you, and I’ve seen a lot of people in your position-I know it sucks. Most of them look like they got hit with a Mack truck,
But you have to prepare for NO ONE helping you. No one, ever. Once you get past that mental hurdle, you can than start making the really hard decisions. Put everything on that table, tear it apart, put it back together. Train yourself how to deal with adversity. If someone/something lends a hand, great, but never count on it. Ever. This will well prepare you for the next time you lose your job, or the car gets totaled, or you get sued by some crazy ass.
We were all sold a bill of goods-Get your degree, get your masters, become an entrepreneur, buy a house, buy a car, work for a Fortune 500, work for the government. Whatever those items were, the world has changed. It will continue to change, no matter how much we kick and scream and stomp our feet and call it unfair.
You have been given the opportunity to learn this firsthand. Take advantage of this opportunity now, and be more deliberate in your life.
Please don’t take this as a “bootstrap” speech; it’s not, not at all. bootstrap speeches are counter productive and annoying.
Please don’t casually disregard this either-it’s meant with the best of intentions.