With all the stereotypes about gay men being attractive, well-dressed, and so forth, are there gay men who are slobs?
Oh yeah. I haven’t dated any per se, but I’ve encountered many.
Mind you, I can be a bit of a slob if left to my own devices, but my other half keeps me in line. Before he moved in, the Pad of Evil® was a biohazard that smelled like a seedy bar.
Now it’s all April-fresh and clean and color-coordinated and decorated, with window treatments and ornamental decorations and throw pillows and paintings and shit.
(I have to admit, though, I was the one who chose the colors.)
Some people find stereotypes to be funny, while others find them to be offensive. Either way, I really don’t think this is an appropriate topic for IMHO.