Responses to a straight, white male complaining on these message boards.

I have experience with reviewing proposals for contractors. It is true they get more credit if they are women or minority-owned. So what a lot of contractors do is make their wives the owner/president of the company. Then they can check off two boxes–small business and women-owned.

It is also true that AA gives preferences to women and minorities. But the make-up of my office is overwhelmingly white male, excluding the administrative staff. Almost every manager is a white guy. The leadership team? White guys. And it’s not just my agency. Every time I go to a professional meeting, it’s a sea of white guys.

So if you’ve got evidence of white guys getting shafted by AA hiring practices, I’d love to see it.

But all your story does is point to a situation where racial preferences are a sham anyway.

But we are all individuals. We should be treated as individuals.

This is how I feel. Everyone has individual needs.

I don’t want to be treated poorly *OR *special for my race or my gender.

I don’t think you have to prove something in order to have had a reason to say it, obviously. But you’ve been talking about the harm to men that comes from being portrayed this way in popular media, and you said that these portrayals show that women control purchasing. I’m just asking why you said that last part. It seems to me that it’s a hard inference to articulate without some pretty harsh assumptions coming out, but that’s to me; I don’t know your reasons. But it seems unlikely that there’s going to be much of a give and take on the larger issue if what you think is going on in the media is, for example, a phenomenon essentially driven by women’s desire to see men humiliated. I would expect to find that that assumption would be a controversial one.

And this shouldn’t even have to be said. It should be universally accepted. Yet some people still can’t seem to handle it.

But we DO live in a world that can be discriminatory. As a white male, I don’t get the poopy end of the stick, (for the most part), so doesn’t that mean there should be laws to protect those who do? Just asking.

I don’t understand your question. Of course there should be laws against discrimination - and my comment logically supports that idea. Whiteness and maleness doesn’t change that either.

I didn’t mean to say that we don’t need laws against discrimination - only that we shouldn’t discriminate in any way, including racial preferences or applying “white male privilege” or whatever to individuals and judging them by it.

But do you think each individual case requires individual attention? If so, (that might not be what you mean), how do you implement that?

By judging them by a logical measure, rather than by race.

I’m not sure what you’re getting at - could you provide an example?

I guess what I’m wondering is that if everyone thought they were being discriminated against for whatever reason, wouldn’t we be swamped with cases? Perhaps more than can be handled?

I agree with you… I just wonder if it would be doable.

And I don’t really have an understanding of how things work, so my question might be ignorant.

But what’s stopping that from happening now? We already have laws that forbid racial or some other forms of discrimination in many ways. Anyone can claim to be discriminated against at any time. It’s not a big problem. The system handles it.

We should also refuse to discriminate in legal ways. But that’s not something the legal system is asked to handle, just us.

Okay. Are you in the U.S.?

On a slight hijack, this may be the best response I’ve seen to these questions ever:

Yes sir, I am.

Okay. Well, you know that we have non-discrimination laws, I presume.

And I think we should, you know, not discriminate by race or judge people by their race even in cases when it is legal to do so.

"If white people are so privileged why is there a Black Entertainment Network and no White Entertainment Network?"

They do… it’s called NBC. However, it it were renamed to White Entertainment Network, there would be a shit storm

"Men don’t have privilege, there are women’s only gyms!"

And ‘Ladies Night’ at the bars.

"Why isn’t there a campus centre for straight/cis people!?"

What’s “cis”?

SAME REASONS WHY IN MARIO KART YOU DON’T GET BLUE SHELLS OR LIGHTNING BOLTS WHEN YOU’RE ALREADY IN FIRST PLACE, ASSBAG.

I HATE BLUE SHELLS, they shouldn’t even be in the game!

That’s cute, but it’s not a race, and males and females aren’t a team, and they don’t all come in first or second place. In fact, if there are no male-only gyms, but female-only gyms, that would mean they actually aren’t in “first place,” right? Bad analogy.

You end privilege by ending privilege, not by creating other privileges.

Gatcha! :slight_smile: