Retired tropes of yesteryear

I wasn’t too familiar with that show, my wife liked it more than I did; but I watched a few episodes. If I recall correctly, the blonde’s dad was a Madoff type who was imprisoned and the family lost everything. So she had to transform from an extremely entitled and sheltered socialite to a normal working person. I’d say she was more of a sub-category of the ‘fish out of water’ trope: ‘riches to rags’ with remnants of ‘rich in dollars, poor in sense’. Completely unequipped to navigate life as a ‘poor person’, at least at first, but no more dumb than Alexis Rose on ‘Schitt’s Creek’.

yes, you can … since cordless phones run on rechargeable batteries they have to let you turn on the other receiver if the one you’re using needs to be recharged without having to lose the call…

the reason I’ve heard is bowling has gotten to expensive and its seen as "grandpas " sport

It’s hard to believe that bowling is “too expensive”. I think the perception of it as an “old guy’s sport” is probably closer to the mark. These things go in cycles. Bowling was the big plebian sport from the turn of the century through the 1960s My home town, I was surprised to learn, used to have lots of small bowling establishments dotted through it. By the time I was around, they were all gone, and bowling was concentrated in a few large establishments in shopping malls that used AMF automatic pinsetters instead of hiring kids as “pin monkeys”

My parents and uncles used to bowl. I used to bowl, having inherited my uncle’s bowling ball. The closest bowling alley remained there until about 2000, when it was replaced by a health club. It wasn’t that it was too expensive (heck, you didn’t even have to own a ball or pair of shoes – most people rented the shoes and used the balls that were there), but just because it fell out of favor.

One of the alleys I used to use is still around down in NJ. Here in Boston, where I now live, not only are the old “standard” bowling alleys and the weird New England “candlepin” alleys still around, but a new bowling alley has opened up at the new “Lifestyle Center” mall – King’s, apparently part of a chain of bowling alley-restaurants. Kings IS more expensive than my old bowling alley was, even allowing for inflation, but it seems to be a thriving business.

I seem to remember there was a trend in the late 80s, maybe into the 90s, where bowling alleys were marketing to young people by having “party bowl” nights (not sure if that’s exactly what it was called). They’d play an alternative song list loudly, turn off most of the bright overhead lights and have colored lighting to give the alley sort of a rave / party vibe. I remember going to one of those with some friends from college.

Jenna Maroney on 30 Rock.

The “too expensive” isn’t really referring to people who occasionally go bowling and don’t own a ball/shoes - for those people $60/hr or $10 a game won’t really make a difference. The people that bowling has gotten too expensive for are the people who in the past would have owned their own balls and shoes and bowled in a league at least one night a week. * More places have decided to use this business model and that raised the prices for league bowling which in turn accounted for some ( but not all) of the drop in league bowling’s popularity.

* I knew people in the '80s who bowled four or even five leagues a week - I know no one who does that now , for reasons ranging from $40 times four leagues is too expensive to being unable to find openings in that many leagues that don’t conflict with each other ( because lots of bowling alleys have closed and many of the remaining ones discourage leagues. )

I haven’t read it, but the decline of bowling leagues, civic organiations like the lodges we’ve been discussing, etc. is the subject of the relatively famous book Bowling Alone.

One of the long-standing bowling alleys here has “Atomic bowling”, in which you bowl fluorescent balls against fluorescent pins under blacklights. That was definitely done to appeal to kids.

One measure of bowling being perceived as passe is the fact that it has its own entry in The Encyclopedia of Bad Taste., where it’s characterized as the only sport where you can eat a sausage and drink beer. That’s not really true (as the saying “hold my beer” suggests), but you know what they mean. You don’t see tennis players noshing between serves.

Bowling leagues used to be a really big deal - local newspapers had regular columns reporting league scores, news and standings, for example (my birth was announced in the 1960s as “league news” for the league my father was in)

When I think of bowling, I think of Homer Simpson and Jeffrey “the Dude” Lebowski. Love them or not, they don’t exactly scream “class”.

That’s really not true (independently from your “hold my beer” remark), as there are a few pub sports like darts and billiards where drinking also often is involved.

Sure they do… “middle-”. :wink:

Exactly: bowling is now seen as a “bar sport”.

The Dude may be many things, but middle class he is not.

But in the 90’s, when that observation was made, golf replaced bowling for many in the middle-middle class. Part of white flight to new suburbs.

My dad was in a bowling league when I was pretty little, but I don’t think he bowled at all anymore past 1960 and maybe a bit earlier.

I wish I had his golf shirt, though. Cool with embroidered bowling pins.

Bowling and bad taste reminds me of a bowling story I’ve shared before. I was on a team from work, and a guy named Duck was eating a cheeseburger in the scoring area. A glob of ketchup and mustard fell on the floor, at which point Larry bent over, wiped the glob off the floor, straightened up, and licked it off his finger. At my wtf!, he merely said, “Duck’s my buddy”.

I once went bowling in Moscow. The guy in the alley next to me didn’t lay the ball down in one smooth motion, the way you do if you know how to bowl. He tossed it a good ten feet one-handed before it came crashing down on the alley.

He was also chain smoking the whole time. I kept waiting for him to drop dead of a heart attack after each toss.

Wasn’t this mostly a thing in the 1980s and first half of the 1990s? I remember Very Special Episodes (and it’s cousin, the Lesson of the Week) being popular on shows like The Cosby Show, Saved By The Bell (Jessie’s caffeine pill addiction), Growing Pains, Fresh Prince, The Facts of Life, Family Matters, Full House, The Wonder Years, and such. I don’t remember seeing such episodes on reruns of old sitcoms that I watched as a kid. There weren’t any Very Special Episodes of Gilligan’s Island, The Brady Bunch, Leave it to Beaver, the Andy Griffith show, and such.

ETA: I’m of the option that this is the reason Seinfeld was such as success. It pushed back against all the sitcoms that were taking themselves too seriously.