I am nearly 71, retired and have a fixed (but fairly generous) pension, so I should be on the opposite side of this question. But I think that with living costs so high, it is anti-social for a senior to occupy more space than he really needs. I do, but I am prepared to pay the extra cost, but if I couldn’t, I would move. It is not the end of the world to move to an apartment. Let someone else have the advantage of our four BR house in a neighborhood close enough to downtown that I can and do walk it (about 4 miles).
That said, I strongly support the idea proposed by Chief Pedant and mentioned by a few others that we should be able to defer the taxes and have them added as a lien on our property.
I know a few of my colleagues who have bitten the bullet and moved to downtown apartments. My wife is opposed to this idea since we want to be able to have our children visit and stay with us. Well, you can’t have everything in this world and money is a great medium for forcing you to set priorities.
Home owners already get a tremendous tax break over renters. Renters, of course, pay their own share of property taxes through their rents. But the “rents” of homeowners are not subject to any income tax, while those of renters are. That is why most people in my situation who want to move to smaller apartment buy condos. I have heard (can’t vouch for it) that the Swiss add an amount equivalent to rent to your income if you are living in a property you own. This is independent of property taxes, as it ought to be.
Here is a true story. When I was growing up, two families around the corner from me decided to trade houses. They were identical row houses, although they might have had different improvement (I never saw the insides). They didn’t hire movers, just spent a Saturday carrying furniture from one to the other. That part is true, the rest of this story is just speculation. Suppose they decided not to transfer title (since that was subject to a 2% real estate transfer tax, half to the city, half to the state), just each rent to the other for $0. The government could have come around and added the amount of the fair rent to their incomes and required they pay taxes on it. In those days (late 40’s) the government didn’t have access to sufficient information to actually do this, but that’s beside the point. The point is that two equivalent economic decisions shouldn’t attract widely different taxes.