Revisiting Childhood Homes: A Trip Back In Time

I was fortunate enough to spend this past April working out of my company’s office in Frankfurt/Main, Germany. My family was stationed in Germany from 1976-79, which was age 7-10 for me, and I’ve never been back there.

One weekend, I rented a car and decided to visit Biebesheim am Rhein, which is where my family lived while we were there. Biebesheim is about a half-hour south of Frankfurt (well, about 15 minutes on the Autobahn :wink: ). The rental car company, Sixt, gave me a brand-new Mercedes M-class SUV for the weekend, so I was cruising along in style.

A lot of people, when they visit places they lived as a child, are disappointed to see how much they have changed. I was in for a surprise, though. Since the U.S. military presence in Europe has been greatly decreased in the last decade, a lot of installations have been returned to their respective countries’ governments. And former off-base housing is no longer used by the military.

Biebesheim has not changed a bit. Except for the fact that the buildings are now occupied by German citizens rather than Army personnel, the neighborhood is exactly as I remembered it. I took a few pictures of the building and the neighborhood around it.

My family lived on the 7th floor of the large high-rise in the pictures. Those playgrounds are just the same as they were 22 years ago–the structures look a lot smaller now, though. When I was a kid they seemed huge! The yard outside the building in the third picture on the left – it’s hard to tell in the picture – is grass growing up through cinderblocks. When I was nine years old, I was playing football with my friends, got tackled, and chipped a tooth on those blocks. The best part was seeing that the underground parking garage is still there. We used to get in so much trouble there. First, we used to ride our bikes down the ramp and slam on the brakes, leaving huge skid marks all the way down. Also, a bunch of us kids would get together and hold on to the bottom of the door, and one of us would run over and push the button; the door would open up and we’d all hang off the bottom. Usually the door would hold 6-8 kids before it wouldn’t open.

It was really weird to walk into a neighborhood that I haven’t seen in 22 years and know exactly where everything was. The middle picture in the bottom row is a restaurant at the back edge of the parking lot; just on the other side of it is a 12-15 foot dike, and on the other side of that is the Rhein river. If you hang a right and walk down the top of the dike for about a half-mile, you come to the Biebesheim Vogelpark, a bird sanctuary/zoo that my sister and I used to visit all the time.

That same weekend, I also visited Stuttgart, Heidelberg and Darmstadt to find them much the same as I remembered them. It was like visiting a museum filled with my own stuff–pretty cool.

Has anyone else had an opportunity to visit childhood homes?

Sure. It doesn’t hurt that any home my parents ever lived in is inside of a five-mile radius circle.

I recently showed my wife the old neighborhood and my old house.

In the house I grew up in you’d walk up the first set of stairs flanked by two three foot high bushes, right of the next set of stairs was a huge (15 feet high and about 40 feet around) rhododendron tree that grew sort of like a hollow ball of leaves, it was our clubhouse, you could fit 5-6 kids in there easily. The front door was stained glass with matching sidelights. In front of the house, was a retaining wall with a half circle cut out of it. In this half circle grew an enormous oak tree, the trunk’s diameter was about 5 feet. We’d play tag AROUND the tree. I took my wedding pictures in front of it. I met other kids in Mount Vernon and they knew which house I lived because of this tree. My parents sold the house a few years ago.

I was in Mount Vernon a few months ago, and decided to drive by. Which was probably a mistake. I turned down the block and was wondering why is it so damn bright. I get to the house and my jaw just dropped, ALL of the trees were gone, every single one! They had taken the sidelight out and put in some cheap home depot door. It depressed me for days. My mom stopped me when I started to descibe it, because she didnt want to hear it. You never really can go home again. :frowning:

my oldest living brother lives in the house i grew up in. (he never did live there at that time, he was grown and gone) it is decorated like crap and has this huge, hairy smelly dog wandering through it.

that house was sooo beautiful when i lived there with my parents, and its tough to visit my brother at “my” house and see it so screwed up.

in bro’s defense, however: the house was rented out for a number of years after my folks moved to a new home with a little less snow, and the tenents tore it up pretty badly, and my brother has actually fixed it up quite a bit, but there is still a long way to go, and with his lifestyle, it will never be right. (as i remember it)

my oldest living brother lives in the house i grew up in. (he never did live there at that time, he was grown and gone) it is decorated like crap and has this huge, hairy smelly dog wandering through it.

that house was sooo beautiful when i lived there with my parents, and its tough to visit my brother at “my” house and see it so screwed up.

in bro’s defense, however: the house was rented out for a number of years after my folks moved to a new home with a little less snow, and the tenents tore it up pretty badly, and my brother has actually fixed it up quite a bit, but there is still a long way to go, and with his lifestyle, it will never be right. (as i remember it)

We moved into my childhood home two months before I was born, and moved out when I was in college. My mother stayed home from work till my sister and I were school age. I remember her—in frustration!—doing a beautiful tilework piece of art on the kitchen wall behind the stove. She chipped out tiny pieces of colored stone tiles, and did a recreation of a Hiroshige lithograph we had.

Fast-forward to 1995, when my father died. I found some photos of the house when it was new and unlandscaped. I made copies of the photos and sent them to the “current occupant,” saying they might be interested, and could they send me a photo of my mother’s tile design?

Never heard a word back from them. Bastards.

In October, Angie and I expect to be passing through the general area of Illinois where I spent the first 11 years of my life. I don’t know if we’ll make the side trip out to the actual town (Bonfield, current population approx. 300) or not but I hope so. I want to see if some of the businesses I remember from childhood are still there. I want to top off the tank at the gas station, get some coffee from the café, and inquire about some childhood friends who lived with their mother in an apartment above the café.