Kat22, you have asked a very good question. It happens to be a hot-button topic here on this Board, and it has generated literally tens of thousands of posts on the subject, on either side of the debate. If you would like to explore the issue in-depth, to see different sides of the debate, perusing some past threads in GD might help out as well. Many of them include questions from non-US citizens who ask a similar thing to your original post.
I was not trying to be flip, BTW, in my terse response. Nor was I trying to play the Victim Card, as I am so often accused of doing. I was answering in my style which sometimes is too “matter of fact”, so please forgive me. I was raped by two men, and was helpless at the time. I will never be again. And if someone tries again, I will shoot them. I don’t want to kill them, necessarily, I just want to not be victimized.
Small, physically weak people like myself will always be the potential victim of larger, heavier, stronger people when physical violence comes to play. When I have my 9 mm or my .44 Mag Super Redhawk, no 300 pound linebacker-type is going to commit a crime on my body. A gun equalizes things for me - or unequalizes, I really don’t care too much which way one looks at it.
Before the event, I didn’t own, or even want a gun. I never even fired a gun (except for one occasion on my Grandfather’s farm, which I did not really like or dislike) until 3 years afterwards. When I saw what I could do - that I could use a weapon safely, responsibly, and effectively - and I saw that I had not only the ability to protect myself but the will to use it, that is when I changed from being slightly anti to profoundly pro-gun.
Later on, I started shooting rifles for sport. And although I am sick a lot, and physically weak and short of endurance, I found a sport I was actually good at. And with my little .22 rifle I was an absolutely fantastic shot - the best of anyone I ever shot against. It gave me a feeling of pride and accomplishment, that I was good at a competitive sport. So there was another reason I liked, and wanted firearms in my life.
Then, later on - about 1989-1990, when the first attempts to ban some guns were intorduced, I had started Engineering School. And I no longer looked at guns as just a self-defense mechanism or a sport, but also as a machine. And I started to get very interested in the mechanics and physics of firearms - in much the same way the physics of a billiard table will fascinate me somewhat (I know, it’s hard to shoot up a school with a pool cue…). But then, something else happened. I started to read the arguments of the anti-gun crowd, and found the lies. And I wondered - if their cause was so good, and so right, why did they lie about the operation of the guns?
I remember Senator Metzenbaum introducing legislation that said one thing, while on TV he said nearly the opposite. And I thought - “Oh my God, either he hasn’t read his own legislation, or else he’s lying on national television - and the media is letting him get away with it! Why?” And I started to think. And research. I found out the truth about “cop-killer bullets”, “assault rifles”, “Saturday-night specials”, and all the other buzzwords that were invented in the media seemingly overnight. (I still recall the words “assault knife” and “assault dog” being used for the first time in my local paper then.) And the truth was not what the newspapers and TV were telling me it was. And that scared me.
So, when I wrote to the people with the anti-gun legislation, trying to get clarification, I received either a form letter response, or a response that went completely at odds with what the actual text of the bills in question said. And I really, really started to get scared. Scared that the issue wasn’t really about the guns, it was about a power play by certain politicians, milking a very few, select tragedies for political airtime. You know, at that time, if the anti-gun crowd had come out and been 100% truthful and up-front, they might have kept me out of the NRA. Then again, I’ve heard anti-gun people say the same sorts of things about the NRA and the pro-gun politicians as well, so perhaps this goes all around. But listening to Senator Metzenbaum say on national TV things that were not in his own bills, and listening to people lie openly about the physical operation of certain firearms was, I guess, what put me over the edge on the other side of the fence.
And then, under Clinton the anti-gun lies and hysteria got to be truly oppresive and frightening. And it solidified my position firmly, and permanently. I don’t trust a Government that does not trust me, who has comitted no crimes, and done no harm or wrong.
Sorry to be long-winded. I hope this explains things a little better about my position, anyhow.