Catherine Asaro (mentioned above) has a fascinating comment in her Forward to Irrisitible Forces a collection of Romance/Science Fiction (or Fantasy) stories by an assortment of writers from each category.
Anyway, she says that she’d been urged to write what she knew, and what she wanted to read, so she did. “When I first started, I had no idea it was an unusual combination. I didn’t know optimistic stories of courship and love had an entire genre called romance or that science fiction with a strong scientific basis was called hard science fiction. I just knew I enjoyed both.”
She claims to have been startled by the reaction to her first book, commenting “I have always though that the sharp distinction we make between our emotions and our intellects arises more out of cultural expectaions than an intrinsic quality of the human mind.”
Unfortunately, despite reading 6 or 8 of her books, I have yet to find anything fiction she has written that I like half as well as her essay on science fiction romance. Neither her romance nor her science fiction are quite to my taste, yet the lure of figuring out all her complicated familial relationship keeps luring me to try again.
The book also annoys me because there was only one story in it that really struck me as science fiction romance. (written by Lois McMaster Bujold–whose books I went on to enjoy). Several of them were more fantasy–which is fine, it just wasn’t what I was expecting.
I hated Catherine Asaro’s story because I didn’t like the characters, didn’t like the self-centeredness of the romance, and didn’t like the fact that it was science fiction that should have been fantasy. (In fairness, that last criticism is not fair to her. She was writing a short story involving characters and a place from her Skolian Empire series, which in general is science fiction–albeit of a sort I don’t like. Still, it bugged me that this was a planet with purple water, caused by a microorganism, when it could have been a planet with purple water just because).
I don’t know that there is a male equivalent to romance novels. But given the size of the market for romance, the steady mainstreaming of the romance market (romance novels coming out in hard cover for example) and the overwhelmingly female readership of romance novels, I wouldn’t be surprised if in the next 5 to 10 years, someone really starts trying to see whether there is a market for romance novels aimed at men–even if they aren’t quite the same as the novels presently being written for women.