Not cities (although St. Louis is notorious for not plowing residential streets). Rural areas, small towns 15 miles away from the county seat. The places where you can’t get high-speed internet. Those places.
Sounds like this was a good move for you two. Congratulations!
The term, “regular people” is funny. We are looking to retire early and coast until Social Security starts. I don’t know if that makes us “regular people” or crafty elitists who think we should be entitled to not working any longer because we know how to use a spreadsheet.
It’s interesting you and others have mentioned politics for the area. It is important to feel comfortable where you live regardless of your position on issues. People who live in areas where they side with the huge majority can’t imagine how it would be like to live in a place which holds the total opposite views on things. So that is something to add to the list of considerations other than cost and safety.
I’ve never been to NC. I wonder how people from the east coast would be received there? I wonder if my east coast accent would distance people from me? I was in midwest and this woman looking for something at the post office asked me what time it was and I told her. She said “You aren’t from here, are you?”. I simply said, “No, I’m not”. Not sure how I could have answered that so she would have said “Thanks” or at the very least not made me feel so unwelcome. It takes all kinds I guess.