You know, I skimmed through this thread with an eerie sense of deja viewing it for the first time. And I was right. Change the names, the cast of characters, and the specific referents for the points made, and it’s the same topic, from GD and other Pit threads, on, oh, the morality of homosexuality, gay marriage, abortion, eminent domain, gun control, and a whole slew of other issues.
The fight is not between smokers and non-smokers – even though that’s what one gets at first glance.
It’s between people with a laissez faire attitude and those who believe their preferred way to do or eschew things should be mandatory on all. And there are people from both those viewpoints on both sides of the smoking line.
Yes, non-smokers. It should be possible for you to go about your appointed rounds without being compelled to inhale second-hand smoke, if that is your wish. Smokers who cluster just outside main entrances, people who smoke anywhere and everywhere in public accommodations like restaurants, bars, etc. – they’re depriving you of something reasonable to ask. Non-smokers are emphatically entitled to be able to live a normal life without having to deal with the supposed rights of smokers to smoke wherever they choose.
But them take the alternative view. I have been in the one room designated for smoking in an eleven-story office building, vented separately by fans to the outside (to an area where people do not congregate and where motor vehicles idle), accessible only through a double set of doors providing an airlock of sorts, and had people come in and criticize because people were smoking there, in the one place set aside for them to smoke. I have sat on a bench in the designated smoking area outside an airline terminal, at the extreme northeast end of the terminal quite literally a quarter mile from the main entrance – for kicks, I paced it off – and had people walk up there and criticize me and others for smoking there.
New York State adopted a law where no smoking was permitted in any restaurant or bar, for the protection of the employees. This was a very popular measure in New York City. But it had the interesting effects, in my home town, of: (1) two small bars closed down, having had their profit margin destroyed by reduced clientele and no convenient location to make a designated outside smoking area; (2) at a bar where “my kids” worked which I came to like a lot, there arose the custom of the bartenders filling all orders at a given point, following which the bartenders and all the clientele would troop outside to the designated smoking area and enjoy a cigarette. They complied with state law, to be sure, but there was not one person, employee or customer, who did not smoke. Who exactly was being protected there?
The point I am making here is pretty damn simple, and I’m surprised that nobody has hit on it yet: Whatever your stance on the smoking issue, you do not have the right to regulate the lives of others to insist they do what you choose to do, or refrain from what you choose not to do.
You may think that gay sex is a sin against God and nature. That does not give you the right to regulate the love life of gay people. You may think that the Second Amendment is completely outmoded. That does not give you the right to demand that law-abiding firearms owners must give up their guns. You may think that GWB is the leader this country needs, or the greatest evil since Hitler suicided; that does not give you the right to stifle and demonize those who believe the opposite.
And whichever side of the smoking issue you stand on, you do not have the right to demand that others must endure what you think is right. If you want to smoke, fine, but you do not have the right to do so anywhere you please at the cost of forcing non-smokers to breathe your smoke. But if you choose not to smoke, you do not have the right to ban smokers from smoking anywhere in the world simply because you might at some point choose to go there. They have the right to limited areas where the smoke will not filter over and bother you, where they can smoke in peace. Perhaps they are harming themselves; the evidence is great. But they have the right to choose to do so in a manner unobstrusive to you.
Bottom line to me: Every person has the right to mind his own business – to do, or refrain from doing, what he chooses to do or not do, without having someone else’s lifestyle imposed on him by force.
If I choose to smoke, and there is only a 300-square-foot room in a complex of 9,000,000 square feet, or a given small area of roofed terrace outside one area of the building, where smoking is permitted, I will go to that room or that terrace. I have no right to impose my smoking on you anywhere else. But you equally have no right to demand that that room or terrace area be made non-smoking along with the rest of the complex to protect your right to clean air anywhere in the structure you might choose to go.
Anyone who does not accept this premise is courteously requested to be consistent, and advocate for such things as abolishing the Second Amendment, agreeing that gay people have no rights to their own love life if a majority decides otherwise, and so on. You know the drill; you’ve seen it argued in various ways in hundreds of threads: “I’m right, so everybody needs to do what I think is right, by force of law.” I don’t care whether it’s carcinogens, sodomy, abortion, firearms, or whatever: absent a clear and present danger to the rest of the world from permitting it to happen anywhere, there is a public right to choose what you wish to do or not do without having the alternative forced upon you by a majority which disagrees with you.