I’m curious about those “Semi-Silly Men’s Organizations,” as a writer in a SD book put it in a question about the Masons. My question deals with organizations that are not tied to religious or quasi-religious overtones, such as the Masons or the Shriners, but is more to the point about organizations such as the Elk’s Lodge or the Rotary Club. To wit:
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What exactly do these organizations DO? Are they basically a Phi Kappa Gamma for grown men-- i.e., you pay the dues, and all the men in your “chapter” become your friends by virtue of signing up?
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Does anything besides drinking, card-playing, and hokey ceremonies go on in these clubs? I mean, are there civic or philanthropic issues being adressed by these clubs?
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What are the dues like? I’m guessing something in the range of $1-2,000/year, but I honestly have no idea.
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Would a young man (I’m 29) stick out like a sore thumb? These clubs seem to be the domain of old geezers.
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Would I have to wear a silly hat and adress the leader as “Grand High Hokie-Phenokee,” as Fred Flintstone did?
Any information you could provide would be greatly appreciated. I’d be especially grateful to hear from someone who is a member of such a club.
Thanks.