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“In general” doesn’t cut it.
Most teachers K-12 are women, overwhelmingly. Haven’t you ever noticed that most school principals are men? And if you look at a list of Directors of Schools from all over the United States, the women, “in general,” aren’t there.
There are examples of discrimination around you everywhere. Why can’t you see it?
How likely is it that the minister at the church nearest you is a man? How likely is it that the mayor of your city is a man? Gee, I must be clairvoyant!
Why is it that the female parent is more likely to leave work or stay at home with a sick child? It is not genetic. It is not inherent that we do so. It is cultural and that can change. That can become more even-handed and fairly managed. That’s one of the things that social equality is about.
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OK, I’ll play. Even though you snipped my quote and made “in general” sound worse than “in general, with a few isolated incidents”, which is what I actually wrote. You’ll notice that men have equal rights “in general, aside from isolated incidents” as well.
But as you asked…
I have not noticed that most K-12 teachers were women. Most of my K-12 teachers were men (graduated in 1999). I also hadn’t noticed that most principals were men either. Yes, the principal of my high school was a man, but both of his assistant principals were women. Neither one became the principal when he retired the year after I graduated because one went on to be a principal elsewhere and the other didn’t want the job (that’s still a valid choice isn’t it?). The school superintendant during all of my K-12 education was a woman.
Hmm, why can’t I see discrimination all around me? Let’s see, for starters, I’m a librarian, which means I’m surrounded by women all day. 95% of the staff is female and I am the highest ranking male in the building (which still puts me #4 overall). I have had five supervisors in my career, all have been women.
In fact, if you want to get technical, I was told that the fact that I was a man was likely one of the things that helped my initial application to library school. Doesn’t that just stick in your craw?
I do not attend church, but honestly, I think whoever can become a minister should be between the church and it’s parishiners. No amount of equal rights laws should change something like that.
The mayor of my neighboring city is male. However, the town supervisor of the town I live in is female and the county executive is also female. Might want to brush up on those clairvoyancy skills.
I don’t know why female parents are the ones to always stay home. My mother was a stay at home mother until I was maybe 10 and after that I never really needed to stay home from school much (so the question doesn’t really apply to me personally). And again, I work with all women and I don’t see a disproportionate number of them skipping work to be with sick children. Most don’t even have school-age children any more.
So how’d I do? Do I live in some feminist utopia? Or is “the battle” a little further along than you’d like to admit because it’s easier to say “Help! Help! I’m being oppressed!” when something doesn’t go your way?