Hypothetical: A man is raped by a woman (and no smart remarks. Strong women exist. So do drugs. Hell, so do weapons). This woman gets pregnant. Should the man be able to force her to get an abortion?
I think so. I’ll use food as a metaphor. If you take brownies over to someone’s house, and give them to someone, then you can’t complain when someone eats them. On the other hand, if someone breaks into your house, and steals your food, you have every right to complain, both for the break-in, and for the improper use of your brownies.
The question is, does a man’s right to say what is done with his sperm trump a women’s right to her body? Does it change things if a woman is a rapist, or if she just broke into your house and stole your sheets after a pleasant night’s dreaming?