I don’t.
I understand why it sounds like such an uplifting sort of thing, a story of forgiveness over hate, and so forth, but that’s not how it turned out in real life. The woman who kept the child never had a good relationship with the girl and as an adult her life is now a complete mess and every relationship she has ever had with another human being has turned to utter crap. She is angry, bitter, lonely, and emotionally disturbed.
The child given up - well, I actually do know what happened to him, adopted by a relative who, although she provides what he needs on a biological level doesn’t really give him the love and attention he needs. He’s a lonely boy, father unknown, who goes up to any man he sees asking if the man will be his daddy.
In other words: no happily ever after for anyone involved.
These children weren’t birthed from an abundance of love or forgiveness, it was because the women’s religions forbid abortion under any circumstances and the women felt it was either give birth to these children or burn in hell for eternity.
I don’t think it’s impossible for a woman to genuinely choose to raise a child conceived in rape, but I suspect such a “choice” is often due to pressure of one sort or another. Likewise, while I know several women who have had abortions with no regret I’ve also known a couple who suffered psychological trauma from having one done.
All anecdotal, and we all know the dangers of such things as evidence of anything, but they serve to illustrate that all of this deals with individuals and complicated circumstances and emotions. One of the criminal things about rape is that there is so often no way to fix everything, to make it as though it hadn’t happened.
TL:DR - the woman who kept the child of rape might have saved her own soul, but her daughter would have been better off being adopted to a family that didn’t know her bio-family and would not have held the circumstances of her conception against her. The woman who gave up the kid might have saved the kid from a bad fate, but his current circumstances aren’t wonderful and arguably there is emotional neglect and he’s viewed as a burden by those around him.
Which in no way should be taken to mean women should be pressured to either keep or abort - I just wish these women had been truly free to decide what was best for them and possible offspring instead of being shoved into a decision.