Should I forgive these two bullies or not?

No, you should steal their livestock.

That’s a random and oddly specific taunt from two unrelated bullying incidents.

I almost wrote “You should read The Tale of Despereaux and take its advice.”

But I have a better plan.

You should read The Count of Monte Cristo and take its advice.

Whether you read all the way to the end before acting will determine the quality of your outcome.

Especially their sheep.

No, the incidents are the same. These guys are from the same group.

How is your brother handling all this?

This is why you keep getting targeted. You have no moral obligation to give people third and fourth chances to stop being a dick to you.

if the first one straight up stole money from you, that’s the only reason you need for him to be dead to you. fuck thieves.

the second person is messing with you because you’ve already made it known you’re sensitive to the subject.

you all are young. people act like that sometimes.

the quicker you laugh with them, the quicker it stops.

the more you seem upset by it, the more it seems like you might actually be banging your brother.

No. Other people said I have the right to be upset and they wouldn’t have found it funny either.

He told he’s let it go, but I was more around these two, which is why it effects me more.

One of the real advantages of uni is that you no longer have to interact with jerks from high school. Forgive them, forget them, and just move on.

You should follow your brother’s example. Seriously, if he can let it go, so can you. That’s what mature adults do.

That is too true. You can suffer or you can have a life. All up to you. You want to hold resentment? By all means go for it.

But you don’t have to forgive, just don’t worry about it. You are what you do, that’s your life.

I have a friend who’s just a cheap ass. I like him though and he’s real friend besides this fact. I did work for him and he paid me crap. What made up was that when I got in a jam he was there.

He put me down a lot before (when we were younger) but the more he knew me the more he appreciated me.

It was a weird friendship but now that he’s in bad health I can’t help but feel bad for him.

NO, the second guy was a jerk. Don’t use the ‘just joking’ BS.

If they are acting like that at their age then they won’t change. They are bullies and always will be. Don’t waste anymore time thinking about them.

nm