Should I host a Russian intern for 2 weeks?

A local nonprofit is seeking volunteers to host interns on a 2-week exchange program from various small Russian cities. Most of them are employees of nonprofits serving the youth community. It’s a cool program; I’ve known some of their staff in the past, and years ago went on an outing with a batch of newly arrived interns (that bunch were for-profit businesspeople, of somewhat less interest to me). So help me sort out the pros and cons. What I have so far:

Pros:

It’s a really cool idea! (International exchange and all that.) I can do something nice for someone, promote internaitonal understanding, all that good stuff.

Learning about what obstacles Russian nonprofits face; I have a general idea, but the specifics are surely educational.

A major barrier for the host organization is finding host families for participants who speak little or no English (half of this batch). I speak Russian, so no problem.

The only specific responsibilities are providing the person with a place to stay and keys so he/she (in my case it would be a she) can come and go freely. They are provided pocket money, a full schedule of activities, and interpreters for their internship assignments by the host organization. But you can take them around on additional activities if you want.

One of the non-English-speaking participants lists on her profile that she is a big choral music lover. So am I. This could be fun!

Cons:

Having to feel like I’m “on” all the time, including speaking Russian exclusively after a long, frazzling day of work.

Having a rommate without an extra bedroom; she would have to stay on the sofabed (but hey, it’s only 2 weeks, and most Russians are used to living in much less space than most Americans are because of the immense housing shortages there).

All the other stuff that comes with having a roommate, like keeping the sink clean, sharing the bathroom, etc. (it’s been quite a while since this was an issue for me).

What else am I forgetting, both on the pro and the con side?

My ex lived with a Russian girl, except it was the reverse of your situation(she stayed in St. Petersburg for a summer) and she loved it. Her host was very pleasent and they became genuine friends. Her host took her around to all her friends homes(Russian apperantly gather at each others homes almost exclusively), introduced her around, etc. overall a very good experience. Now, thats from the point of the guest, but they got along in a one bedroom for about 3 months, having never met. That’s plenty of time for the “honeymoon” to be over. I’d say try it, its only two weeks. Of course it depends on your guest. Just don’t buy a whole 1/5 of vodka, but I’m sure you already know about that if you speak the language. :slight_smile:

Despite the fact that I lived in West Hollywood, CA - with a huge populace of Gays and Russians (go figure) and I found the Russians to be quite rude, anti-American, anti-Gay and very mafia-like;

And despite the fact that I lived in Berlin, with a huge populace of Russians who were also quite rude and abused the German social welfare system;

I say, go for it. Your knowlege of Russian, and the chance to show someone a different culture and way of life will be a small, but important step. I am totally in favor of exchange programs. Sure, it will be a little inconvienient for you for a few weeks, but the chance to meet someone new - to share some insights and learn from each other, should more than make up for the oddness of having to put up with a stranger for a time.

I would do it in a heartbeat for the experience! If something doesn’t work out, her time here will be limited. But if things click, you may have a friend for life! Who know! Go for it!

Just an aside here, but when I first clicked to post a response, instead of getting a completely blank space to write in, I got the original post formatted as a quote for posting again.

Weird…

That’s because you clicked “reply” and not “post reply”.

When I saw the thread title, I was expecting Eva Luna to be posting a reply considering she’s one of our resident Russia experts. Oh well…

It does sound like a good idea. The one thing I would worry about is time/energy. I end up taking care of a lot of foreign visitors, and just trying to be friends can be rather tiring. On one hand, you really want to show them everything and make sure they have a great time, on the other hand, you have all your regular obligations. It’s like having two jobs.

Just make sure she’s not a SPY. Just be on the lookout if you happen to see her with a high-powered sniper rifle or anything like that.

Another vote for “go for it”.

I had a Russian housemate once (for about a year), from Moscow. We got along great. There was one little thing I had to straighten her out on, though: she was referring to African-Americans as negroes. It turns out that her high school English-language classes had relied on textbooks that were really outdated… :rolleyes: