Oh, never mind. My post was out of date considering the OPs last post.
You can. But it’s a lot of trouble and the burden of proof that it’s packed right is on you. If the exterior of the box isn’t damaged, any damage is generally caused by improper packing.
There is no evidence at all of any of these *"deciding you don’t want it, lying about damage to the item, damaging it yourself ".
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I was responding to gonzomax’s claim that doing so wouldn’t be taking advantage of someone, when it clearly would be.