call my ex’s folks?
here is the story (short version) for more details…see the “I am so mad” thread in the pit.
he hasnt see the kids since the end of july, and I last spoke to him in late august. At that time, he said he would see the kids soon, pay his support, blah blah blah, he hasnt even phoned them, even though it was frankies birthday LST monday, and I am beginning to wonder if he is just ‘done’ with them…
My quandry: My mom is dying, and she wants the boys to have a relationship with the ex’s mom, so they will still have a grandmother when she is gone (ouch-hurt to type!) I have told the ex that whatever goes on between me & him is not a reflection of how I feel about his mom…she was very kind when she heard about mom.
His mom has not called or anything, and they havnt seen her since mid july…are they(his parents) being like this because he told them stuff? ( they never liked me at all, and since the last break up, I think his dad really strongly dislikes me…I have talked to his mom back in late aug, and she was supposed to get some of shitboys insurance info for me (he put the kids on his policy, but I have reciepts for prescriptions, and no way to get the $$, because he wont tell me where to submit them.
I have also called there (late aug-early sept) looking for shitboy, and was told he wasnt there, and he was.)
is he saying he CANT see the kids?
Should I call her and tell her she can?
Will that look like I am stalking the ex?
Should I bother at all? They are really white trash, and maybe the kids are better off without them…
I dont want a debate about fathers vs mothers, and grandparents rights, all that stuff…I just want to know what you guys think…Should I call?