The difference is that I have confidence that in our system no one is going to be forced to have an abortion, at least not in the sense of being physically restrained. I do think it’s possible for a woman to be pressured into getting an abortion, but even if she does she’ll still be alive afterward to seek legal redress.
Kill someone against their will, without their consent, and they’re dead. It’s over.
Aside from the man not having a say in whether or not a woman has an abortion, as a criminal he would doubly have no say in it. Feel bad about a baby being aborted that you conceived via rape? Don’t rape people, just for a start. If a man feels having a child he sired aborted will make him feel bad then be damn sure he doesn’t sire an unwanted child. If he’s not a rapist then maybe he could offer to take full, no-strings-attached custody of the child but it’s still not his decision. If he is a rapist - well, don’t think that sort of person should have custody. He should be in jail, in which case taking care of the infant would be impossible.
You are incorrect. True, I don’t like PAS and don’t think it is a good thing, BUT, just as the phrase “don’t like abortions? Don’t have one!” can be applied, I may not like or approve of PAS, but if it DOES exist in society I want to be sure no one is subjected to it without consent.. Your friend consented. I wouldn’t interfere, even if I don’t like what she did. She consented. I won’t stop her.
Just don’t ever expect me to think it was a good thing. At best, it was the lesser evil.
If you’re so gung-ho on doctors killing people I want the assure that this will NEVER happen to me, personally, just as I can be reasonably sure no one is ever going to strap me down to a table and force an abortion on me. I do not consent. I do not approve. I do not want this evil for myself even if other people do want it, even if it’s legal.
Again, I do not want this. I do not consent.
I would also find it a moral abomination if people who can NOT consent are summarily put to death out of some misguided, twisted “mercy”.