“Slut-Shamer”… " Don’t think I’ve ever heard that one before. What’s that phrase’s etiology? Being used by a female against a male? If she’s a slut, shouldn’t she be shamed?
I see you have a recent join date, lance. Don’t let 'em, getcha down. Consider it a kind of “hazing”. Initiation doesn’t seem to fit here anymore.
I know it doesn’t mean much, being that it comes from the “village idiot” (me), but this used to be a pretty decent place where words like that weren’t used against Dopers except in the shit. I mean, pit.
It means that a woman who has been raped, molested, or otherwise violently violated deserved it if she were wearing provocative clothing, excessive makeup, was drinking or at a party, bar, or other social venue. In this thread it refers to men who think that women with attractive bodies deserve to be harassed.
Troppus, see that little red triangle with the exclamation point next to the post number? That’s what that little thing is for. Talk to a mod to get the thread moved.
I’d like to thank HoD for the excellent summation. And to note, just for the record, that I don’t debate idiots, so there’s that. Finally, I agree that this puppy ought to be pit bound. There’s so much more boobs to be covered.
AU, just a friendly word of advice… you might want to brush up what you know about the rules around here regarding junior modding. That might help you stay well within the bounds of what is and isn’t acceptable. I have no comment on your behavior, just a casual observation so you don’t find yourself in hot water. If you’re interested.
Well isn’t junior moderating acting like a moderator when you aren’t? Because if that’s the case, then maybe my post about that “report” was out of line, but I don’t know how my last post was. I don’t think I was acting like a moderator.
I’m new to what “junior modding” really means. What are the rules on junior modding (sorry, I’ve only been here for four months)?
Oh, come on! He’s such a nice guy that he pretended he has horsey blinders on so he didn’t get distracted by the nice hair cutting lady’s bussom. He’s a gentleman, damn you!
So I don’t appreciate a very brief glance from yards away being classified as a hovercraft ogle. As some of your “Clara Bartons” have noted, it’s not always because the viewer is perceived as a creepy ogler but rather because of other factors such as changes in the way the shirt is fitting throughout the day.
Perhaps you should understand what I said, not invent BS to cover your theory.
I never said that men are genetically programmed to look at cleavage. That would be pointless, as in nature, when men evolved, humans would have been naked.
What I would have said ( and I’m not going to troll through loads of posts to find the specific one ) is something like " men are genetically programmed to copulate with as many females as possible" Nothing about cleavage there.
Nowadays, though men can’t act on that impulse anymore, they do divert the copulation urge into the looking urge.
As you are being personal about my social conditioning, I can tell you that I, personally, find large mammaries decidedly unappealing, and were I in an office surrounded by humungous bouncing breasts being thrust at me from all sides, my only urge would be to run, as far and as fast as possible.
I said I’m a leg man, and as western women have resorted to covering their pins with a male garment ( trousers ) there is absolutely no way that I will be oggling/ looking at or perving at most western women.
I’m not sure that the “I’m programmed by evolution to rape women, hey look, I’ve downgraded that to gawking” argument is a winning one.
If you have an evolutionary imperative to fuck women, I don’t think that could be subsumed by mere looking. And if it can be downgraded that drastically, it should be a really simple matter to go from looking to glancing.
I thought men liked sluts? Now, I am really confused.
Aside: I have lost a significant (40 pounds) amount of weight and wore a pre-weightloss top today. There is a significant amount of cleavage and I keep adjusting. This one is going in the Goodwill pile.
I’ve noticed it is next to impossible to find cute tops that aren’t cut too low. I have tank tops to wear underneath them, but it gets so daggum hot down here that that’s unbearable. One season, I had to mail-order nearly every article of clothing I bought because the ones in my local malls weren’t fitting right up top.
I suppose the women who try to cover their cleavage were forced to buy a top they aren’t comfortable with due to lack of there being anything else suitable out there at the time. You’d think we’d have plenty of clothing options, but certain body types can only wear certain types of clothing, so each body is limited as to what looks good on them.
That answer was probably entirely too scientific-sounding, but that’s been my experience.
Since you are apparently posting from the 1950’s, I want to break this to you as gently as possible. Brace yourself.
Women are your equals. You may wax nostalgic all day about the days when you could hit dames and broads for wearing pants, but we left your kind in the dusty black and white some 60 years ago. If, after wanking out a few Mad Men episodes you’d like to defend your “male garments” buffoonery, please join us. I’d wait for the laughter to die down, though.
Easy for you to say, little feller. I’m sure you’re beating off fantasy girls left and right while having the girl of your dreams several times per day, but some of these guys transfixed by the Siren’s cleave must settle for generous girls because selective women just won’t suffer gawkers.
