This is what I do at home. If the recipe doesn’t call for the tails, I will boil them in water anyway and freeze the resulting broth for another time.
I fear if I ask for shrimp sans tails at a restaurant, they will just cut the tail off instead of peeling it and I would lose a third of my shrimp. Miss Manners says that it is perfectly acceptable to ask for no tails and takes the restaurants to task for leaving them on.
I am quite embarassed, both for myself and all of the others out there that struggle with the misconception that sushi was designed as a finger food. I think I shall start a campaign to let them know the folly of their ways. They’ll probably have to commit seppuku a set of wooden hashi over this egregious error.
Of course there is always the possibility that all those people in the restaurant saw you eating with chopsticks, so used theirs to save you the embarassment of your faux pas.
I don’t recall any snipped tails. I have a mental picture of shrimps without tails, but with the little nubby that remains when tails are properly pulled.
That does it, time for some research. I’m going to go to Juan’s Place tonight for some shrimp (tails intact) cocktail, and maybe a couple fish tacos.
Life is hard.
You can take your cues secondhand from web sites if you like; I’ll stick to direct observation of many Japanese people over a long period of time. I seriously doubt the whole of Tokyo conspired to eat their sushi with chopsticks just to help a random gaijin save face.
Perhaps people do eat sushi with their fingers in Japan; I just never saw any. Maybe it is a behavior that increases in informal or intimate situations. Japanese etiquette is very much dependent on situation and company, and some Japanese people may have individual or regional habits that they consider universal customs. So hard-and-fast rules are inherently unreliable. Of course that doesn’t stop Westerners from relying on them (just as Japanese make equally foolish generalizations about Westerners).
As for the shells and tails, save the cloth for a bouquet garni (something like that) for when you make a proper shellfish stock. It’s a little trouble, and takes a couple hours, but more than worth the effort.
There are plenty of recipes out there.
This stuff in a nice cioppino will get you laid.
She takes them to task for ignoring a request to remove the tails or for choosing to make tails-on their standard practice? If the latter, well, who made her boss of everyone?
Then what gives her the authority to “take restaurants to task” for any individual restaurant making shells-on the default?
Did you read my whole comment? I don’t understand what you’re suggesting, a nationwide referendum to decide whether to mandate shells-off as the default for all restaurants?
I think someone has her mixed up with Martha Stewart.
Me? I don’t know for sure. It’s never happened. The cook doesn’t get the tip anyway. It would likely affect my future visits, and I would tell the server.
A - I think she was saying that if you asked for the tails to be removed and they were left on.
B- I re-read my comment, and didn’t see that at all. I’m not big on universal mandates. I just don’t want tails in my linguini with shrimp alfredo sauce.
I also prefer that my salmon be well de-boned, though I can do it myself.
Are we argueing here?
“We’ve examined your X-rays, ma’am, and I think we’ve determined the source of your abdominal pain. It appears that the entire length of your digestive tract is clogged with cocktail umbrellas.”