My platinum rings are not dull and are not grey. Actually they look somewhat like silver only they do not tarnish and have a little more depth of gloss I think. Sorry you have this impression of platinum; maybe you have seen some that was not cleaned regularly?
Silver is beautiful but I look dorky in it 
I’m too pale to pull it off.
While not platinum, my engagement and wedding rings are white gold (very popular c 1978) and I seldom wear them. They’re shiny and attractive right now but if I were to wear them regularly they’d end up looking, in the words of my jeweller friend, 'like a couple of lumps of lead."
Yellow gold dulls but it still looks good.
My wedding ring is white gold, and I have a couple of pieces of regular yellow gold. I prefer silver-colored metals like white gold or platinum, but I do wear regular gold too. I don’t like low-karat gold, though. The few yellow gold pieces I have are 24k. Solid-gold rings don’t wear well, which is why I don’t have any gold colored rings, just stuff like a gold chain, cufflinks, pins.
No, it wouldn’t. It would have stood out less against his skin and been less noticeable, but it would have been every single bit as tacky. When the entire concept is bad, the execution is really irrelevant.
I’m a gold or copper girl, myself. That’s not to say I don’t have any silver jewelry, but it’s 95% unrequested gifts. The only silver piece I can think of that I ever picked out for myself was a pair of drop earrings shaped like Eeyore. (What? I like Eeyore. And I was a teenager and could get by with stuff like that.) Those I took silver over gold because Eeyore is supposed to look boring. Having him all colorful and fun would just be wrong.
That’s my issue with silver–it’s just so visually boring*. I like color, and contrast to help define and accentuate the color, so I always think gemstone jewelry looks vastly better in gold in a display or on a person. And on me, where I’m so pale, silver just kind of blends in. If jewelry just blends in, what’s the point of wearing the stuff, ya know?
*This is also my issue with diamonds. They’re fine as an accent, but alone? Blah. Alone and set in silver-toned metals? Total snoresville.
Gold is our inheritance, and our sense of value. When a woman marries her husband, she is given a bunch of gold, that is supposed to be hers and hers alone. My family never approved of me taking a partner that was not Indian…but when my aunts gave me a solid gold necklace and earring set a few years ago, I knew they had finally accepted it.
When my mom died my dad gave me her wedding necklace, a gold and black chain called a mangal sutra, and I knew he had accepted it.
My SO is Chinese and it’s very similar. When I started getting gold from his mom, I knew I was welcome in the family.
We pass gold on from generation to generation and even I’ve got the bug. I would never buy gold, but I find myself loathe to part with even the pieces I have locked up in the safety deposit box that I never wear. I am aware in my head that it’s just gold…but when I think about selling it I balk. I’ve pretty much decided I’ll pass it on to a niece or maybe a nephew for his wife.
I’m a “winter” so I look better with silver accessories. It goes well with my silver-and-black hair!
Peppermint!
I’ve never liked gold. My high school, college rings and wedding band are all white gold/silver. I don’t even like gold doorknobs, etc. in the house.
Can I mention, by the way, that every time I see this thread I get “Silver and Gold” from Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer stuck in my head? Get thee behind me, Burl Ives!
Glad it’s not just me…