I’ve been listening to the Adult Alternative internet radio station lately. They’ve been playing “Girl All The Bad Guys Want” by Bowling for Soup. A really fun song.
They describe the girl in question with the line:
“Her CD changer’s full of singers who are mad at their dad.”
When I first heard that line I cracked up. But when I thought about it, I realized that I am familiar with the oeuvre, but specific examples escape me. The one that first came to mind was “Everclear” (lead singer Art Alexakis).
Barry Manilow gave his long-lost father the cold shoulder when they met years after the fact. I wonder if he selected the song “Ships” as a remembrance of the encounter. . . .
Then there’s Meatload in *Objects In The Rearview Mirror:
And when the sun descended and the night arose
I heard my father cursing everyone he knows.
He was dangerous and drunk and defeated and corroded
By failure and envy and hate.*
Vedder’s negative feelings are directed primarily at his stepfather. Or ex-stepfather…what does one call a stepparent after a divorce? Anyway, Vedder barely knew his biological father, and was unaware that his stepfather was not his bio father until after his bio father’s death. The lyrics to “Alive” were obviously partially inspired by this.