Singing to a Dead Lover

After I suggested Stephen Foster’s Beautiful Dreamer as one reminding me of a movie (Mighty Joe Young, in this case. What? You think I’d pick Jezebel or The Secret Life of Walter Mitty?) I looked it up, and found this on Wikipedia:

…AND MAY ACTUALLY BE DEAD

Boy, that puts a different spin on that song.

“I Dream of Jeannie”, too.

I have to admit, I’d never considered that, and probably wouldn’t even have thought of it, even reading the lyrics. It’s easy to forget that life expectancy was lower and the mortality rate much higher as recently as the end of the 19th century. They had lots of photos of dead children and poems and essays lamenting the lost, and the same factors affected young adults as well as kids.

Paint It Black by The Rolling Stones features a part where Mick is singing to a dead partner (“ No more will my green sea/Go turn a deeper blue/I could not foresee this thing/Happening to you”).

It’s the whole song.

Both the loss and the aftermath.

I see a line of cars
And they’re all painted black
With flowers and my love
Both never to come back

Maybe then, I’ll fade away
And not have to face the facts
It’s not easy facing up
When your whole world is black

True, but the part I quoted is the only part where he’s singing directly to her (at least, the only part where he’s addressing her directly). The rest of it always sounded to me like he was taking about her, but not to her.

But that’s just how I took it.

An obvious one…

I suppose the video for Mary Jane’s Last Dance could fit in here.

A few tracks on Frank Sinatra’s album Watertown might qualify, if you subscribe to the theory that the narrator is in denial that his wife has died.

Well, the obvious winner is Evanescence’s “My Immortal”, possibly the saddest song ever written.

Still You… Turn Me On by Emerson, Lake, & Palmer is about being a little too dedicated to a dead lover. “Someone get me a ladder” indeed, Greg.

What bothered me more about that song was Greg chewing gum when he played it live

“Am I Too Late” by Old 97s, although maybe doesn’t fit since he’s not telling her he loves her until after she’s dead.

There were a lot of pop songs about death in the late 50s-early 60s. “Leader of the Pack,” “Last Kiss,” “Tell Laura I Love Her,” to name a few.

But I think that Mark Dinning’s “Teen Angel” is the only one in which the singer is directly addressing his dead girlfriend.

The novelty song, I Want My Baby Back, by Jimmy Cross https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zo8DhbQw_O4

“Don’t, This Way” by The 77s—I don’t know whether it’s necessarily addressed to a dead lover, but that’s one reasonable interpretation.

Don’t leave this way, so many words unsaid
Don’t lie this way, stretched straight from feet to head
Don’t look this way, closed eyes, unmoving lips
Don’t feel this way, cold hands and fingertips

Don’t forget this haunting ballad.

Not mentioned yet: “Pull The Plug” by Starz

From the 1880’s: “Oh My Darling, Clementine.”

Little Rosewood Casket

Lyrics

There’s a little rosewood casket
Resting on a marble stand
With a packet of old love letters
Written by my true love’s hand

Go and bring them to me, sister
Read them over for me tonight
I have often tried, but I could not
For the tears that filled my eyes

When I’m dead and in my casket
When I gently fall asleep
Fall asleep to wake in heaven
Dearest sister, do not weep

Take his letters and his locket
Place them gently on my heart
But this golden ring that he gave me
From my finger never part

There’s a little rosewood casket
Resting on a marble stand
With a packet of old love letters

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Please note when a song is Public Domain/Traditional. We’re getting flags on your post. Little rosewood casket | Library of Congress

Sorry I thought it was an old song from the early 1900s.
My mother used to sing it to me.

Her you go from the internet:
The “Little Rosewood Casket” is a traditional folk song, with the earliest known version credited to songwriters Louis Goullaud and Charles A. White from Boston, who wrote it around 1870; the song is about a dying person leaving behind love letters in a small rosewood casket, signifying the sentimental value of their memories