Your body composition is the result of your lifestyle. If you want to change your body composition, you need to change your lifestyle. It seems obvious and simple, but it’s easy to forget. Don’t use genetics as a copout. Just because your genetic predisposition is to be skinny doesn’t mean you have to accept that. If it takes eating 5000 kcals a day for you to put on muscle, then eat 5000 kcals a day. If it takes eating 1200 kcals a day to lose fat, then eat 1200 kcals a day. Do what you have to do.
It isn’t normal to count calories. It isn’t normal to figure out how many grams of carbs, proteins and fats you’re eating every day. It isn’t normal to plan your meals. It isn’t normal to eat six times a day. Then again, it isn’t normal to be lean and muscular. You have to do extraordinary things to achieve extraordinary results.
Forget “Dieting” and think nutrition. You should always be eating in a healthful way and that means a diet of carbs, proteins and fats. You can fiddle with the percentages and amounts to achieve specific goals, but you should be eating some carbs, some protein and some fats with every meal. Any diet that wouldn’t sustain your health if you followed it exclusively for the rest of your life is a bad diet.
Do the math. There are plenty of resources to help with this (here’s one)
There is a lot of nonsense being touted here as well as solid advice. Take the time to do the research and decide for yourself the right course of action for you. You’re playing with your health here. If your health matters to you, then you owe it to yourself to educate yourself about the issues. There is plenty of good information available from reliable sources for anyone willing to look for it. The main thing is that there are very few one size fits all answers and so you have to know the big picture to be able to make the right choices.
Lunch? You eat lunch? I’m at just dinner every day and still am in the same situation as the OP.
No offense intended, but eating once a day is a seriously misguided way to diet. It actually promotes fat storage!! It spikes your blood sugar, which spikes your insulin and high insulin promotes fat storage. Eating once a day is the perfect gain fat and lose lean body mass diet. Seriously. Don’t take my word for it. Google - insulin levels and fat storage - and see for yourself. If you were to take those same calories that you eat for dinner and spread them out over six meals every three hours, I guarantee you would have 10 times better results! Just try it for one week and you’ll see! Even just spreading them out over three meals a day would make a huge improvement in your dieting results. You don’t need to eat less; you need to eat smarter.
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What’s the deal with breakfast? If you skip it, doesn’t that work AGAINST you in terms of losing weight since it screws up your metabolism and your body starts burning muscle or something?*
I eat six times a day and I consider a skipped meal as “going off my diet.” Skipping meals is a very bad dieting strategy. You want to keep your blood sugar and insulin levels as even as possible. Figure out your calorie needs for the day and divide by six and then eat every three hours. It isn’t hard to eat a healthy 300 kcal meal if you plan ahead and 1800 kcals a day is a seriously calorie restricted diet for most active people.
I wouldn’t try gaining muscle/losing fat at the same time. The human body really just doesn’t work that way.
Want to bet? It isn’t an easy thing to do; it takes a very serious commitment to diet and training but I’ll put money on that any day. I’m doing it right now. My body fat percentage is going down and my lean body mass (in pounds) is going up. Here are some case studies of others who have done the same thing.
Triskadecamus - good advice.
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I figured if your heart rate is higher, you’re working harder and burning more fat. Is that the case?*
My post in this thread explains the situation.
The “gladiator” remark was just for fun. I was thinking along the lines of the old sword and sandal Hollywood gladiator movies or maybe Brad Pitt in “Troy.” Buffed but not huge.
Getting serious about nutrition and training changed my life and so I’m a bit of a fanatic about it and I’m the first to admit that I’ve taken it to something of an extreme. But I went that way because it was fun for me and I’ve enjoyed every minute of it. Keep your training fun and you’ll be more likely to stick with it. Measuring results is also a good way to generate positive feedback and keep yourself motivated. Get some Body Fat Calipers and watch that fat melt away. Read the advice of training professionals like Ian King. Set some reasonable goals and work to achieve them every day. Don’t set goals like “I’m going to add 15 pounds of solid muscle this year.” Set goals like “I’m going to put maximum effort into tonight’s workout.”