So we let the boys select our new dining room funiture...

We’ve been wanting new dining room furniture for a while. Unfortunately, we have very little to no time to shop during the week and the boys don’t really like shopping for furniture during the weekend. I can’t say that I blame them, either.

Our old dining room set was a pedestal base with a square, beveled glass top and four black lacquered, slatback chairs. It was contemporary and not exactly bad looking but it was getting a little long in tooth. I’d recovered the seats of the chairs once with in a beautiful, but formal, gold and black scrolled pattern. This was when we had a separate dining room and a contemporary, somewhat formal set was appropriate. Currently, though, our dining room and kitchen are one big room, separated by a breakfast bar. The dining room furniture looked very out of place. Plus, our current table was a little too big for the space. We needed something a little more casual/country and flexible.

My husband and I don’t do casual and we certainly don’t do country. We recognized, however, we’d have to find something we normally wouldn’t purchase because contemporary just wasn’t a good fit. Since we’ll be moving in the next two years and didn’t want to shell out big bucks for furniture we might not want to keep, we decided to check out Ikea. We usually like Ikea, but, as we soon discovered, they didn’t have what we were looking for with regards to country/casual dining room furniture. Frankly, we didn’t even know what we were looking for but we knew we’d know it when we saw it. We typically have the same taste in decor and this is how we shop. We’re a salesperson’s worst nightmare because of this.

I didn’t really want to go any cheaper than Ikea so for months we just stopped looking. We went to a few upscale consignment stores hither and yon but their offerings were too elegant-antique or distressed country-antique for our tastes. Besides, you have to either a) commit to going to consignment stores every weekend or b) tell the salesperson what you have and mind and have them call you when a suitable set comes in. Neither option worked for us.

The kids hated being dragged to furniture stores, too. I mean they just hated it! They either wanted to try out ever chair, sofa and love seat in the house or just wanted to get the hell out of the store. Can’t blame 'em, either, because that’s pretty much what I wanted to do, too.

Back in August, on a whim, we went to Ethan Allen. Before going in, we promised the kids as soon as we left, we’d head straight to Target and they could pick out whatever toy they wanted as long as it was less than twenty dollars. We usually don’t bribe the kids but desperate times call for desperate measures. And, boy, were we desperate! If I had to clean fingerprints off the glass top of our dining room table one more time, I was going to scream. I’ve inhaled so much Windex that you can probably see your reflection in my lungs.

Anyway, we’re strolling through Ethan Allen, lamenting on how nothing’s a good fit, style-wise or price-wise. Suddenly Nathan, our ten year old, points to a table and tells us he loves it. Looking all around the ugly table to which he’s pointing, my husband I ask him which one he likes. Surely, we both though, it can’t be that heavy, oak table. I mean, yuck, it’s so old and fuddy-duddy looking. Yep, that’s the one he likes. While we’re explaining to him there’s no way we’re buying that, the four-year old chimes in to tell us he likes it, too. Not only does he like it but he’s going to buy it for us. He fishes two dollars out of his pocket and starts to go in search of a salesperson.

My husband I look at each other, look at the table, back to each other and, finally, at the boys. We’re tired and weary from furniture shopping. We look at the table again and cringe. Twenty minutes later we were checking out at Target, fifty bucks lighter and a few Beyblades and Transformers richer.

A few days later, Nathan asks us if we can get the table we saw at the furniture store. I sigh and try to explain to him that we really don’t like it. He lets me finish my explanation and starts to tell me how much he really likes the table. He doesn’t like our clean lines and contemporary stuff. He wants something that --and these are his exact words-- ‘feels like home’. It was all I could do not to roll my eyes.

Later that evening Nathan and I went back to Ethan Allen, just the two of us. I look at the table. It really isn’t that bad, I think to myself. It’s a little smallish but I see that it can support a leaf or two. I don’t like the chairs they have with the table, though. I see some bowback chairs in black with another table. If they have those chairs in the same finish as the table, I’d much rather get them, I conclude.

After calling my husband and letting him talk to Nathan, we reach a decision. I find (!) a salesperson, ask about the chairs and delivery. She asks me to follow her so we can discuss financing. I tell her that won’t be necessary. Nathan realizes we’re getting the table and, out of the blue, gives me a hug. I ask her for her best price for the table, two leaves and six chairs and, while it’s far more than I originally wanted to spend, I write a check.

We got the set on Saturday. It’s not as bad as we remembered it. With just one leaf in, it’s the perfect size. It freed up a lot of room in the dining room, too. The kids love it and my husband and I are warming up to it. We keep it covered with a table cloth, though, when we’re not dining at it.

Here’s a link to the chairs; they’re just regular old bowback chairs, though.

I can’t find a link to our exact talble, but it looks like this one but it’s a the color of the chairs, the pedestal’s column isn’t reeded and the base is a little heavier. Our base looks like the one on this table, actually, but it has ball feet.

This reminds me of the time we got new dining room chairs. Ever since we were married we had had a set of four chairs in our dining room. Brown naugahyde chairs with casters, which were fine, but after 15+ years and three kids, they were starting to show their age. Since there were five of us in the family, and only four chairs, our youngest son, who was now about 9, usually had to sit on a folding chair when we all ate together.

One night my wife was in a furniture store and found a good price on a set of 6 new chairs, so she bought them. Unfortunately, they only had 4 in stock, so she brought the 4 home and arranged delivery of the 2 others.

When she brought them in the house, the kids were excited, especially Mike, because my wife told him that he could have his own chair now. Then he counted and did the math and said, “But, Mom–there’s only four of these new chairs.” My wife replied, “Yes, but now you can have one of the brown ones for your very own!”

The look on his face was priceless until we told him that there were 2 more coming.

As a dedicated loather of contemporary furnishings, I smugly consider this a battle won. Good for your boys!

Sounds like your kids ought to playing the Sims (minus the WooHoos, natch).

Am I the only person thinking

What’s a 4 year-old doing with two dollars?

Of course when I was four, two dollars would have gotten me bus fare to Kansas City, today, not so much.
Oh and I like the table.

I like the chairs, but reserve judgement on the table until you have the time to post a pic or two. Have you considered that your sons may be “gifted” in the area of interior design? :slight_smile:

ShibbOleth, funny you should ask. My oldest one loves to look at the Ikea catalogue when it arrives. We sit out back and read it together, putting together our wish list.

It’s hit or miss with him, though. For example, he thinks those backlit pictures designed to look like a flowing waterfall are ‘cool’.

I’ll try to take a picutre of the table this evening and post it. If you say you don’t like it, believe me, I’ll understand.

Zebra, my aunt took Aaron to the fair earlier that day and that was his change.

Sattua, I feel defeated.

TD, what’s a WooHoo?

FBG, that’s adorable.

Listen to your kids, they have good taste. As a more important aside, unexpected hugs are beyond value.

I learned something many years ago.

If it doesn’t matter to you. Let it matter to someone else. Don’t jump in when you are not sure. Or if it doesn’t matter to you. Ask your loved ones for opinions.

Understand when it matters more to the other than you. Love the other persons choice.

It may be an important choice for the other person, and not to you, support them and try to guide them. If you love the person, let them decide. They must.

Encouragement, and support. That’s what we can give each other.

You let it matter to your sons. Very nice.

On the other hand. Your sons picked out a table. Cool. It’s not gonna matter in 100 years, but I bet they got a kick out of it. One of them may take it to his new house some day. What else is there?

Enipla

Just idle curiosity - which Ethan Allen did you go to? If it was the one in Towson, at the Beltway at Joppa and Loch Raven, you shoulda waved. You were about five minutes from me. :slight_smile:

I need new dining room furniture, too. Is Nathan free sometime next week?

Something that grown up Sims can do. Takes two, and can happen in the Love Tub :wink:

And this thread has inspired me to go and buy a new desk. Don’t think your kids would like it, though

We went to the one on Rt. 40 both times. I do live closest to the one in Towson. We like to go to the Asian market on Rolling Road and any excuse, even shopping for furniture, will do.

Here’s a picture or two.

Attractive table (though, like you, my taste is to clean, sharp, modern lines) but I’m puzzled by the feet.

That thing’s not on castors, is it?

No, but that would be pretty damn funny.

I think it looks fine. Very homey. Not exactly to my taste but certainly liveable and I can see why both of your boys like it. Looks as if it’s made to have large portions and lots of desserts.

giggle Damn, that concept bothered me enough that I had to copy the pics and enlarge them. It’s ball-style feet - hurrah!

Perhaps it’s time to drop my screen resolution a bit, or start wearing my glasses…

I grew up in a home where the furniture was all claw feet, ball feet, lots of Jacobean style furniture, heavy wood with ornate stuff on it, leadlight… I was so sick of it by the time I moved out that I swore I’d never have anything like that in my own house, ever. Consequently my house is a) ‘underfurnished’ in some opinions and b) all sharp lines, modern colours.

(I will make an exception for my mother’s chiffonier, though. That’s gorgeous.)

…and I hit ‘reply’ instead of ‘preview’.

What I was going to add is, I wonder if our tastes are just naturally the opposite of what we’ve grown up with?

My brother’s the same as me - he has less furniture rather than more, tending to squared-off, unornamented styles. And (like my place) not a knick-knack, ornamental bowl, urn, chiming clock or other such thing to be seen.

While my husband, on the other hand, really likes my mum’s style of decorating. HE grew up with pine everything, and his only stipulation on our decorating was, ‘Please, no pine’. :wink:

That’s the word I’ve been searching for to describe the style of furniture; homey. We’re not ‘homey’ people. Apparently, though, the boys are.

I tried to locate a picture of my old dining room set but, alas, could not. As another posted mentioned, Nathan will most likely have the new one as his first dining room set. I have to admit, that’s a nice feeling.