Yes,** Ice Wolf ** I had considered this almost satisfactory over the years since I read this but I have a problem with…
As well as…
And…
This is all just a bit on the philosophical/mamby pamby side to count as the real deal, hard core scientific explanation we have come to expect here at the Straight Dope boot camp of ignorance eradication.
**… loss of control over the relationship… **
**… mundo bizarro psychosexual implications… **
**… fine line between pleasure and pain… **
Not exactly the kind of language I would expect to see in this weeks issue of Electronuromography weekly if you know what I mean.
I agree with Ice Wolf. First, the psychoanalytic explanations are just not credible (power relationships, psychosexual mumbo jumbo, etc.)
If I tickle myself, I experience very little emotional reaction. If I think a spider is crawling on my skin, giving me exactly the same physical stimulus, I react with horror (leap out of my chair, yelp, slap my own skin and tear off my shirt). If my lover gently creates the same physical sensation for me, I feel it as a tickle.
I think it’s an example of “feed forward”. Your brain has a pre-existing expectation of what can happen, and routes the sensation to a different part of the brain in each case (probably through the thalamus at some point).
Anyway, I think tickling is a response governed by the social parts of our brain.
Try ticling the roof of your mouth with your tongue. Always works for me, but then again, I find it hard to cut my own toenails coz they feel too ticklish.
I never understood what the whole “you can’t tickle yourself” thing was about. When my stomach is tickled, whether by somebody else or by my own hands, my abdominal muscles contract violently (feels like they’re trying to pull away from the unpleasantness), and my reaction is not so much “tee hee!” as “GOOD LORD, WHAT DID I EVER DO TO DESERVE THIS AGONY?”
I can tickle my own feet and get the same reaction as I get when tickled by someone else. It’s the only place on my body that this appears to happen though…how odd!
Try running your fingertips across your skin as lightly as possible and still touch. It gives a tickle. Not quite the same as a poke in the ribs, but it’s there.