Ugh.
I just want you all to know that this thread inspired me to go and check, and then spend the next 10 minutes sobbing over my keyboard.
The ones that do it for me are the ones that make me think about my mum, and make me feel guilty about not being a good enough daughter:
“When She Loved Me” by Sarah McLachlan.
“I know you by heart”, Eva Cassidy.
“Slipping through my fingers”, Abba.
I’d never heard this one till a group of us went to see Mamma Mia as part of my hen do. Within moments of Meryl Streep starting to sing, Mum and I were clinging to each other and wailing:
“What happened to the wonderful adventures
The places I had planned for us to go
(Slipping through my fingers all the time)
Well, some of that we did but most we didn’t
And why I just don’t know.
Slipping through my fingers all the time”
I should probably explain that I’m the only child ot a single mother, so we’re very close!
Added to that list are two songs that remind of my grandparents:
“Father and Daughter” by Paul Simon:
"I’m gonna stand guard
Like a postcard of a Golden Retriever
And never leave till I leave you
With a sweet dream in your head
Im gonna watch you shine
Gonna watch you grow
Gonna paint a sign
So you’ll always know
As long as one and one is two
There could never be a father
Who loved his daughter more than I love you"
My grandad was more like a father to me, and this song perfectly describes our relationship.
And lastly “Dance with my father” by Luther Vandross, because it reminds of my grandma’s pain now he’s gone and she’s on her own.
Sniffle I’m sad now. I hope you’re all satisfied!